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ARE YOU THE ONE?
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Dating advice for chicks:
Probably not. Why? Because you're not sure. The cool thing about love is that you never doubt this. You know.
If you're not sure, ask yourself why. Not why aren't you sure, but why aren't you gone?
When someone loves you YOU know it.
They do stupid things. They don't care about being cool. They think about you all the time.
Sound romantic? It is.
But don't worry, it won't last. (In fact, it won't last more than 2 years—tops—according to research.) Still, if you don't have it for the first five years of a relationship, then you ain't got shit.
And if you are questioning whether or not you are The One for them, then you probably aren't. Check out time. Bellhop? Take their bags!
Wasting time with people who aren't The One just makes you older, uglier and less likely to find someone who IS the One. Cut them loose now.
Guys will stay in a relationship because he's getting regular sex (without having to put in the heavy upfront "hitting on" effort). A woman will delude herself into thinking "it will get better".
It won't.
In fact, odds are it'll get worse.
The romance will fade slowly away, imperceptibly at first, until you both have so much invested in the relationship that you CAN'T leave because that would mean admitting you both made a huge mistake. Then, for some reason, many couples will decide to have kids.
Do you truly feel like they think you are The Shit? Then you aren't. Don't be too upset. Take it like the piece of used meat that you are, and hit the road.
I guess I hang around for the games. Treat him mean and keep him keen, that kind of thing. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't and when it does it fades quickly.
I haven't experienced that sick with love feeling for 3 years and I'm looking forward to many more loveless days and nights...happily I might add.
Women need to stop the lie they keep telling themselves and look at realty and woman up.
Its always games with women isn't it?
I am sorry that is such non-sense. everything you put down on this site is in these black/white terms. He either thinks you are THE ONE or he doesnt. He either loves you deeply or he couldnt give s shit. Man, it doesnt work that way. People are a little more complicated than that and if i went by all the black and white thinking you suggest, I would hate every guy I meet and be angry and bitter all the time, cause I am NEVER THE ONE for someone rightaway. There are guys who dont want to fuck everything that moves and there are women who dont want relationships..You cant go around clasifying people and relationships with this ultimatum kind of attitude.
The one thing I have learned though is that you just need to start not giving a damn - I mean REALLY not give a damn. If someone calls or wants to get together with me, great...I'd love to if I can, I enjoy their company, even if I am not the one...and if they dont call, then they dont call and i move on to find happiness elsewhere. Wasting your time thinking about people who DONT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF THE DAY is what makes you ugly and unhappy - not the thought of not being THE ONE who has been delivered to your soul-mate by the relationship messiah.
umm well put.. i wish i could think like you.. i just keep thinking it will get better....... somedays it is and it makes up for all the shit, then there's the shit and here I find myself here at relationshit....
I LOVE THIS SITE N EVERYTHIN ON IT!! WISH ID FOUND IT SOONER..!!
If he's a narcissist or sociopath you might never know and get stuck in his soul-sucking games forever. These men appear normal & very charming.
Read lovefraud.com or saferelationships.com and get out of the clutches of some psycho!
Guys are just dicks that's the bottom line, therefore you need to learn how to play their games and play, play, play, the "love fairytale" does not exist, so make sure you use guys: looks, money, position, anything that you can get out of them so in the end when its over you know at least you got what you wanted, shit its all about hustlers
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