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4 years, now what?


By Anonymous - Posted on 14 December 2005

after fours years, should i know if he's "the one?" am i trippin, waiting on fireworks to burst in the sky? is uncertainty a sign to move on?

Move on? Way too much investment and waist of your and his time.

If I was with a guy for four years, and by then I didn't look at him and think "Damn. I love this guy. Lets get married and have babies etc. etc." I'd be out of there like a rocket.

Vaime wrote:

If I was with a guy for four years, and by then I didn't look at him and think "Damn. I love this guy. Lets get married and have babies etc. etc." I'd be out of there like a rocket.

Good advice. 4 years is more than a reasonable amount of time. It's up to you now if you want to pursue getting married or not.

Your odviously settling!!! What are you waiting for?? Your comfortable and so is he. Sounds like a friendship and not a relationship.

MOVE ON!!!!

Cut him loose and see other people. You know prince charming the moment you lay eyes on him. I found mine and got married in 6 months.

That was 9 years ago!!!! :D

He's the one if you are comfortable with and feel safe with. If you enjoy him in and out of bed. Don't wait for fireworks cause they tend to disapear after a while, it's normal. It's like that in every relationship.

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