Food for Thought (for the ladies)

I am sharing this with all the other ladies..... because it make someone smile, or another rethink her choices, or another woman prepare.

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A MAN WITHOUT PRINCIPLE NEVER DRAWS MUCH INTEREST!!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant

to be.

Never live your life for a man before you find

what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you

deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends."

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like

he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at

yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers

you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even

if he has more education or in a better job.

What are you looking for in a partner?

Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never compete for a man...if he really wanted only you then there would be no competition...

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never agree to put ANYTHING in your name for a man unless he put a ring on your finger first...good credit and no money is better than bad credit and alot of many...protect your credit.

Give your children your last name...if a man's last name isn't good enough for you then it shouldn't be good enough for your children...kids with different last names is not cute!

I'd just like to add...

Never borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

A good Brother comes in all shapes sizes...

Romance is not always "game"

You should not be the one doing all the bending..

compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute

about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship

consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone

complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Never settle for Mr.Right Now...

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,

and your always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything

that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

--Unknown