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please friends i need your input


By Anonymous - Posted on 08 September 2005

my b/f says that the reason he wont go down on me is because he's not sure that he's the only guy I'm sleeping with. we have been together for 5 yrs living together for the last year and a half. i am not now nor have i ever cheated on him, or given him reason to suspect that i had. also, he never acts like hes not sure if im faithful at any other time. these reasons lead me to believe that he and his "reason" are full of shit.

as for why i'm posting... please tell me what you think of this . what is your gut reaction/ impression? maybe some guy's could give me a bit of insight ?

frustrated

guest wrote:

my b/f says that the reason he wont go down on me is because he's not sure that he's the only guy I'm sleeping with. we have been together for 5 yrs living together for the last year and a half. i am not now nor have i ever cheated on him, or given him reason to suspect that i had. also, he never acts like hes not sure if im faithful at any other time. these reasons lead me to believe that he and his "reason" are full of shit.

as for why i'm posting... please tell me what you think of this . what is your gut reaction/ impression? maybe some guy's could give me a bit of insight ?

frustrated

Didn't you already post this up?!

Perhaps a male's perspective may help you but I'm bisexual so I can pretty much see things for all sorts of angles. He doesn't want to eat you out. Who cares why, he just doesn't.

Cut your losses and move on already.

here coochie coochie, here baby!!!! :lol:

yes i did post this already, i was hopeing for some more opinions. no harm was intended.

you have just cleared this whole matter up in one fell swoop. you made me think "duh how stupid can i get?" your totally right "who cares why" , it kinda feels weird when you suddenly realize that you've forgotten any common sense you may have had at one time. and you now only remember because its just come rushing back to you knocking you off your ass.

so consider me knocked off your ass, but damn how I did need it !

thank you

guest wrote:

yes i did post this already, i was hopeing for some more opinions. no harm was intended.

you have just cleared this whole matter up in one fell swoop. you made me think "duh how stupid can i get?" your totally right "who cares why" , it kinda feels weird when you suddenly realize that you've forgotten any common sense you may have had at one time. and you now only remember because its just come rushing back to you knocking you off your ass.

so consider me knocked off your ass, but damn how I did need it !

thank you

No problemo babe, now go out there and enjoy your life. It's your life, remember that.

<3

A small amount of jealousy, the sort that leads to hot bedroom antics, is one thing. Jealous accusations that TAKE AWAY from the bedroom fun are not cool.

I've been emotionally abused by a man who was insanely jealous for two years. I have finally gotten the hell out. You might think about it. Jealousy like this goes bad places in a hurry.

Take care of yourself.

Most of the times, the people who accuse others of cheating might be guilty themselves...

He doesn't trust you ? or maybe he is simply making excuse for something he finds disgusting to do ? stop doing it to him to let him know how it feels to be denied something you like.

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