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So what if the Love of your life dosent break up with you, what if he never planned to... what if this was it for you, the man you love, the family you always wanted.. picure perfect.. then he dies...
can i date again, not sayin i WANT to .. lets face it then guys today are only about one thing...
Is it ok to want to have that compainonship again even though my hearts not in it... I really feel like im cheatin on him since we never broke up... since we were happy... whats considerd "o.k"

too deep for ya???
well thats life!

Here's where you can vent your spleen. Purge your guilt. Or rant your fucking head off. You're goddamn pissed, and this is the place to let the whole world know it.

So choose the Sex of your Ex:

I am in my early thirties, never married, no children. I was asked out by a consultant where I work 7 weeks ago. He is 39, was divorced 5 years ago and has a 7 year old girl. His divorce was very painful for him. I honestly was reluctant at first- saw him more as a brotherly type. Anyhow, I started to enjoy him and I was attracted to him. i have a healthy libido and sex is very important to me. This guy stated that it takes him a long time to get sexually comfortable. He was unable to sustain a hard on with a condom. This erectile dysfunction seemed to be happenning over and over again. I finally got so frustrated mainly because he would not talk about it or admit it was a problem. When I did confront him, he cried and got choked up and told me he did not want to lose me and that he was in love with me. I honestly felt this was too soon. But I definitely did not have that not in my stomach like I have had with guys in the past that I have been in love with. I told him I wasn't there yet but had feelings for him. Well, that was about three weeks ago. Since then, we have spent a lot of time together and I thought we were getting along pretty well. Last weekend, I got really overwhelmed. We spent so much time together, I felt I was being suffocated. I was very irritable with him. Then, this hostility seemed to come out in him and he was making a lot of passive aggressive comments and then denying he was doing it. I apologized last Monday for being cranky. He then said that he needed to think about things. I said that I couldn't wait for that and that we should settle everything that day. He came over that night and told me we weren't clicking and that he spent 8 years in an unhappy marriage and that he did not want to "get burnt" again. I asked if he would give me another chance and he said not right now. He texted me the next day and said he was sad all day. I didn't respond and then has to call him Thurs (really had no choice- work reasons). He said he felt "bad" and missed spending time with me. I suggested maybe we get together for a friendly dinner and he said he would call me when the weekend was over. He lives in my neighborhood and when I passed his street Thurs, I ended up calling him and asking him if he wanted to get a drink. He said he was in bed with a bad cold. I aked if he need anything and he said no. He sounded kind of cold- maybe just sick but I feel like a fool. I know I did what every woman shouldn't. I just got really vulnerable. He told me again that he would call after the weekend since he has his daughter this weekend.
I am confused- If I wasn't feeling like I was falling for him, why am I so hurt? Why was he in love with me one week and wanting to get rid of me the next? I don't know what to do now. I feel so embarrassed for calling him on Thurs.

Keith P. Clive

A Narcissistic Online Predator, preying on foreign women from Europe, using Pen Pal World (Nick: Canuck, ID # 242479 and another profile on www.interpals.net, using the following Nick and name variants: Leggoscrivo, Kpclive and Keith Clive).

Spends all his free time online (he's not online only when he's at work – that is when he GOES to work), using Instant IM’s (Yahoo Messenger, Hotmail chat and Skype), and checking his large number of e-mail accounts, he's irresponsible and infantile, with no hope for a future. Instead of doing something for himself to finding a better job, he had set a net of targets in Europe. From Eastern to Western Europe, he has one (or more) woman on each country, feeding his ego, replacing his lack of REAL LIFE friends and girlfriends.

Apparently, he tells all these women he wants to be a TESL teacher in Europe. He is so "kind" that he opens accounts for each target on Yahoo or Hotmail. The trap is good and all of them start to help him find a job.

What they don’t know is that he is not interested in finding a job at all and he has no certification to teach (at least yet). He just uses them to sow his brainwashing - love words and flirt. He hits the targets with his so-supposed kindness and friendship, yet sometimes he can be very rude, especially when he projects his temper onto someone who tells him NO.

He blames his targets, accusing and judging them. This is projection as he is just mirroring himself. An internet porn addict and a pathological liar, he tries to collect some trophies from his Net Babes and tries to have cybersex with them. He asks for bizarre things that no woman should ever send him.

He "falls in love" (online) ? with his targets and asks them if they would get married to him after they’ll met, if the the chemistry is there. It is supposed that he has around 30 targets at the present moment. At the end of several e-mails in a couple months, he is "in love…"

Bottom line, what he wants is finding someone he can lure, who will move him to Europe, using his online girlfriends because his life in Canada is a big mess, perhaps living at their expense!

He has no problem corresponding with married women and telling them love words (always asking them to keep it a secret). The women who are in abusive marriages will rush into a divorce because they think, he will marry them & take care of them.

The data provided about him is also fake. He uses someone else’s address! Wonder why?

http://www.datingpsychos.com/viewpsychos.html?psycho_id=331

Hello everyone,
Just wants some opinion and insight about internet dating.
Waiting for responses!
Thanks all!
Take care!