Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 04/19/2007 - 2:31pm.
You know what, sex really doesn't matter. After 8 years of marriage my husband and I still had some kind of sexual contact almost every day. Whether it be sex, oral sex, fantasy play... whatever. The only days that we missed were days when one our schedules collided and that was usually only a few times a month. Yet even after he told me he wanted a divorce, HE STILL WANTED TO HAVE SEX! Then he got mad at me when I said NO. He said, "but you've been having sex with me for all these years" Well sure, when I thought I was having sex with my husband! But what woman would really continue to have sex when he says he wants a divorce and is serious? Even after he moved out he would bug me at least once a week to have sex with him. I told him that 8 years of sex was more than enough to tide him over. I realize sex is important to a relationship and that's why I really put forth the effort, regardless if I was tired, sick, in a hurry, whatever; I always tried to please him. Obviously that wasn't good enough. Oh Well.
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You know what, sex really doesn't matter. After 8 years of marriage my husband and I still had some kind of sexual contact almost every day. Whether it be sex, oral sex, fantasy play... whatever. The only days that we missed were days when one our schedules collided and that was usually only a few times a month. Yet even after he told me he wanted a divorce, HE STILL WANTED TO HAVE SEX! Then he got mad at me when I said NO. He said, "but you've been having sex with me for all these years" Well sure, when I thought I was having sex with my husband! But what woman would really continue to have sex when he says he wants a divorce and is serious? Even after he moved out he would bug me at least once a week to have sex with him. I told him that 8 years of sex was more than enough to tide him over. I realize sex is important to a relationship and that's why I really put forth the effort, regardless if I was tired, sick, in a hurry, whatever; I always tried to please him. Obviously that wasn't good enough. Oh Well.