I agree if he doesn't love you he won't commit, shopping and all those other activities that are stereotypical of men hating is just bs. Go watch a guys face light up with joy when he walks into Sears or Home Depot, or a sporting goods shop. Women will have the same miserable face on occasion that guys will when being dragged around shoe shopping. I think if the girls out buying a pair of high heels then it's only fair to go some place with the guy that you wont enjoy so much...Pep boys or some other car parts store. Marriage problems are only what you make of them and most can be easily worked out. If you really love the person your with married or not most arguments if you really look at them are superficial.