Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 11/29/2007 - 11:57am.
I am sorry that is such non-sense. everything you put down on this site is in these black/white terms. He either thinks you are THE ONE or he doesnt. He either loves you deeply or he couldnt give s shit. Man, it doesnt work that way. People are a little more complicated than that and if i went by all the black and white thinking you suggest, I would hate every guy I meet and be angry and bitter all the time, cause I am NEVER THE ONE for someone rightaway. There are guys who dont want to fuck everything that moves and there are women who dont want relationships..You cant go around clasifying people and relationships with this ultimatum kind of attitude.
The one thing I have learned though is that you just need to start not giving a damn - I mean REALLY not give a damn. If someone calls or wants to get together with me, great...I'd love to if I can, I enjoy their company, even if I am not the one...and if they dont call, then they dont call and i move on to find happiness elsewhere. Wasting your time thinking about people who DONT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF THE DAY is what makes you ugly and unhappy - not the thought of not being THE ONE who has been delivered to your soul-mate by the relationship messiah.
I am sorry that is such non-sense. everything you put down on this site is in these black/white terms. He either thinks you are THE ONE or he doesnt. He either loves you deeply or he couldnt give s shit. Man, it doesnt work that way. People are a little more complicated than that and if i went by all the black and white thinking you suggest, I would hate every guy I meet and be angry and bitter all the time, cause I am NEVER THE ONE for someone rightaway. There are guys who dont want to fuck everything that moves and there are women who dont want relationships..You cant go around clasifying people and relationships with this ultimatum kind of attitude.
The one thing I have learned though is that you just need to start not giving a damn - I mean REALLY not give a damn. If someone calls or wants to get together with me, great...I'd love to if I can, I enjoy their company, even if I am not the one...and if they dont call, then they dont call and i move on to find happiness elsewhere. Wasting your time thinking about people who DONT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF THE DAY is what makes you ugly and unhappy - not the thought of not being THE ONE who has been delivered to your soul-mate by the relationship messiah.