Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 01/15/2006 - 6:58am.
Take it from a veteran of the wars (male, 46 y/o) You experienced what every young man goes through when dealing with young women. Reality collided with the "Hollywood" fantasy about women and relationships. First, you did not see the signs that she had no intention of being in a relationship with you; it seems that all the effort was coming from your side only. At no time did she indicate that her feelings for you were the same as yours, although she benefited from them. Secondly, when you professed your "love" for her she needed to pull the plug on the "relationship" because quite frankly, she was not in love with you. (see website on the "ladder theory" regarding why) To tell you that she wanted to be "friends" was her way of getting out without being the "villain" and "hurting your feelings"-but she did'nt act like a friend, did she?
Thirdly, you weren't in love; you were in lust. Unless you were getting sex from her-you had nothing; women bang their boyfriends. Period. Why are you thinking about having a serious relationship if you are a young man? You should be getting laid every night from a different woman every night. Why go to a third world country when you can get it in the good ol' USA? My advice: Treat women like crap (don't be dependable, don't give flowers or candy, don't take them to dinner...and for gawds sake....DON'T TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM!)For the pussies out there that want to take this the wrong way...this does not mean to abuse women physically or mentally....Oh, and listen to The Tom Leykis Show (www.blowmeuptom.com or www.leykisonline.com) You'll be alright pal, go get drunk, blow off some steam, get your head together...don't do anything stupid and be yourself. It's her loss, not yours.
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Take it from a veteran of the wars (male, 46 y/o) You experienced what every young man goes through when dealing with young women. Reality collided with the "Hollywood" fantasy about women and relationships. First, you did not see the signs that she had no intention of being in a relationship with you; it seems that all the effort was coming from your side only. At no time did she indicate that her feelings for you were the same as yours, although she benefited from them. Secondly, when you professed your "love" for her she needed to pull the plug on the "relationship" because quite frankly, she was not in love with you. (see website on the "ladder theory" regarding why) To tell you that she wanted to be "friends" was her way of getting out without being the "villain" and "hurting your feelings"-but she did'nt act like a friend, did she?
Thirdly, you weren't in love; you were in lust. Unless you were getting sex from her-you had nothing; women bang their boyfriends. Period. Why are you thinking about having a serious relationship if you are a young man? You should be getting laid every night from a different woman every night. Why go to a third world country when you can get it in the good ol' USA? My advice: Treat women like crap (don't be dependable, don't give flowers or candy, don't take them to dinner...and for gawds sake....DON'T TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM!)For the pussies out there that want to take this the wrong way...this does not mean to abuse women physically or mentally....Oh, and listen to The Tom Leykis Show (www.blowmeuptom.com or www.leykisonline.com) You'll be alright pal, go get drunk, blow off some steam, get your head together...don't do anything stupid and be yourself. It's her loss, not yours.