Thanks for your words Sydney. Though I know where u're coming from, things are slightly different I think. I'm 23, and though I am young, I am the kind of person who is comfortable with long-term relationships due to the fact that I take things slowly. I'm not the kind to fall in love in a day, and I don't think anyone really is. We may feel strong attraction, conection, affection, but I think falling and being in love includes getting to know that person's unique traits, physically, mentally and emotionally. That is why when we're in love we adore our loved one's little flaws.

Regarding what u said about him maybe discovering things he didn't like about me, I seriously doubt it, and not because I'm full of myself, but because up to a few days before the breakup everything seemed to be normal. He has always said I englobe everything he wanted in a girl, and I never tried to stop him from doing things he always used to to. I mean, I gave him all the space he asked for. I know he feels great physical attraction towards me, and holds great love and respect toward me, as well as thinking we really click mentally. That is why he was so scared of losing me. I know it's probable he just really loves me as a friend, but I really don't think there was anything I did to bother him.

I really feel he just needed space and time, and I