That "wonderful woman" always seems wonderful at first, but she's only wonderful on her terms. These terms are usually so vague and misleading that you just get dragged in thinking you got a chance. This is where I give ice queens their due credit, cause at least they tell you upfront that you don't have a chance. But that perky girl next door or at work will be "nice" and let you do things for her. Some women just love the attention, but when its their time to give it back, they pull out the "friend" card and you're shit out luck.