Lady Devil,
I'm a female and I said I believe in giving everyone a chance, but as u well know, u don't really choose who you fall in love with. I have gotten my heart broken in the both serious relationships I've had and yet I can't bring myself to like or love those guys who would be "best" for me because something is missing- one can't avoid the emotional, intellectual and physical chemistry they feel for someone. If it's not there, I just can't be with someone. I know I would just be using them and end up hurting them. I know myself.