U are absolutely right. Initially though, he was the one who got upset with me for not responding to his emails immediately or picking up my cell phone. I have read the Rules and "he's just not hat into you " and clearly I have not followed any of their advice.
This actually got worse. The next night, I was up and online. It looked like he got online so I tried to initiate conversation and I got no answer. I was asking him why he wasn't answering me and then it turned out it was his cousin using the computer. I was mortified. He actually woke the guy up because he knew I was upset the day before. The guy got on and basically like you said, seemed to resent that I was making him feel guilty. He told me that since we live in different countries and neither plan on moving that he does not want to get his heart broken. I offered that it was easy to get one's heart broken anywhere. He was pretty patient with me but i don't think he read my emails yet which were guilt inducing. So, i may have ruined everything. i don't know why i gave in so much to my emotions.