Submitted by Lady Devil on Fri, 03/17/2006 - 11:39am.
Thanks for the feedback,
Hope to get more responces
I asked because we contacted a really interesting poll of 347 women between ages 26 to 34, who where never married or divorced, mostly looked for the man there age or 4 to 10 years older, 91% have regular stable job and income, 11% percent have one or more kids from previous marriage, each one have at least an associate degree, 56 % have a bachelor degree, 18% have masters, about average to athletic and tone body types, 32 % speak more than one language, all have there profiles on matching sites from 12 month to 36 month. All of them where looking for a stable committed relationship, with very realistic expectations, with a man who have a couple extra pounds, about average to athletic and tone body type. Most of them went at least on average 6 to 11 dates a month, some had a relationship which lasted 12 month.
But most of the responses was such a disappointment, most man will start dating and still keep there profile and be online every day, a lot of lies about height and body type. Financial baggage rated # 1 among all 347, # 2 was baggage from previous relationship, # 3 physically(sex) and emotionally unstable, # 4 extremely unrealistic expectation(princess bride unrealistic), # 5 not educated, not funny, not enough personal interests. Even if they where chemistry with all that baggage it was no possibility for any future, and most man just want to keep looking anyway, some where in a relationship with 2 or 3 women at once, some on the rebound
What women conclusion where that there very few emotionally, physically and financially stable man, each one of them had at least one problem in the departments listed above.
Another big concern was ex, which apparently became such a good friend, but it did not bother man to bad mouth them.
Man will disappear, or tell them there is no chemistry, but than will try to reappear a year later
Of all the women that we contacted the poll with, at the mean time no one is in the real relationship, none are engaged or even came closer, none married. 302 of them claim that internet is very unrealistic and will never do it again.
At the same time the poll was contacted for man, apparently we found more man who where interested participate in the poll. 590 man who had there profiles on matching sites, from 12 month to 36 month, between ages 29 to 40 supported us in this effort, most of them(75%) claimed in there profile that they looking for solid serious commitment, 67% where never married, 36 % had a one or more kids from previous relationships, 32 % have bachelors degree, 28% have masters, only 34% have regular job and income, mostly looked for women who are there age, or 2 to 12 years younger, 95% wanted a slender or athletic and tone body type women only, 37% speak more than one language, 79% did not respond to women who did not had there picture displayed. But in reality only 7 man out of 590 where looking for stable committed relationship which will lead to something, the rest where concerning with sleeping with as many women as possible. And 496 claimed that internet is not a place to look for a serious girlfriend or wife. All those 496 claimed that women have an extremely unrealistic expectation(serendipity unrealistic), 92% claimed women compare them to their ex, 69% claim that women expect them to pay for everything, 37% claim that women do not look like there picture in real life, 69% claim that they look worse than the picture in real life, 18% claim that they look like a picture in real life, and only 1% claim that women look better than their picture in real life, and another thing 90% of man claim that women look worse naked in real life that they expected. Also 76 % claim that women are too impulsive, aggressive, and emotionally unstable. One of the biggest thing was (trust me I did not expect that) that 99% of man claim, that all women sleep with them too quickly either on their 1st but not latest than 3rd date, and every 2nd women claims that's the first time they ever done it(Women come on, what's wrong with all of you?) Like one man responded: " we do not need to have prostitutes in this country, someone will blow you, for free, from the match, for a latte"
The biggest excuse to get out, was if they met someone else online where: need more space, more time to reflect, or not ready, not feeling it for you, it is not you it's me(a very typical American male trade, have never notice any not American man even know phrases like this)
400 claimed that it is an addiction, and there is always someone better, and they will probably need help to permanently stop looking.
I am not trying to say that women are better than man.. And to tell you the truth I have met better man than women thru my not yet very long life experience. Each one of us can make a small conclusion out of it.
Lady/Devil best of both worlds
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Thanks for the feedback,
Hope to get more responces
I asked because we contacted a really interesting poll of 347 women between ages 26 to 34, who where never married or divorced, mostly looked for the man there age or 4 to 10 years older, 91% have regular stable job and income, 11% percent have one or more kids from previous marriage, each one have at least an associate degree, 56 % have a bachelor degree, 18% have masters, about average to athletic and tone body types, 32 % speak more than one language, all have there profiles on matching sites from 12 month to 36 month. All of them where looking for a stable committed relationship, with very realistic expectations, with a man who have a couple extra pounds, about average to athletic and tone body type. Most of them went at least on average 6 to 11 dates a month, some had a relationship which lasted 12 month.
But most of the responses was such a disappointment, most man will start dating and still keep there profile and be online every day, a lot of lies about height and body type. Financial baggage rated # 1 among all 347, # 2 was baggage from previous relationship, # 3 physically(sex) and emotionally unstable, # 4 extremely unrealistic expectation(princess bride unrealistic), # 5 not educated, not funny, not enough personal interests. Even if they where chemistry with all that baggage it was no possibility for any future, and most man just want to keep looking anyway, some where in a relationship with 2 or 3 women at once, some on the rebound
What women conclusion where that there very few emotionally, physically and financially stable man, each one of them had at least one problem in the departments listed above.
Another big concern was ex, which apparently became such a good friend, but it did not bother man to bad mouth them.
Man will disappear, or tell them there is no chemistry, but than will try to reappear a year later
Of all the women that we contacted the poll with, at the mean time no one is in the real relationship, none are engaged or even came closer, none married. 302 of them claim that internet is very unrealistic and will never do it again.
At the same time the poll was contacted for man, apparently we found more man who where interested participate in the poll. 590 man who had there profiles on matching sites, from 12 month to 36 month, between ages 29 to 40 supported us in this effort, most of them(75%) claimed in there profile that they looking for solid serious commitment, 67% where never married, 36 % had a one or more kids from previous relationships, 32 % have bachelors degree, 28% have masters, only 34% have regular job and income, mostly looked for women who are there age, or 2 to 12 years younger, 95% wanted a slender or athletic and tone body type women only, 37% speak more than one language, 79% did not respond to women who did not had there picture displayed. But in reality only 7 man out of 590 where looking for stable committed relationship which will lead to something, the rest where concerning with sleeping with as many women as possible. And 496 claimed that internet is not a place to look for a serious girlfriend or wife. All those 496 claimed that women have an extremely unrealistic expectation(serendipity unrealistic), 92% claimed women compare them to their ex, 69% claim that women expect them to pay for everything, 37% claim that women do not look like there picture in real life, 69% claim that they look worse than the picture in real life, 18% claim that they look like a picture in real life, and only 1% claim that women look better than their picture in real life, and another thing 90% of man claim that women look worse naked in real life that they expected. Also 76 % claim that women are too impulsive, aggressive, and emotionally unstable. One of the biggest thing was (trust me I did not expect that) that 99% of man claim, that all women sleep with them too quickly either on their 1st but not latest than 3rd date, and every 2nd women claims that's the first time they ever done it(Women come on, what's wrong with all of you?) Like one man responded: " we do not need to have prostitutes in this country, someone will blow you, for free, from the match, for a latte"
The biggest excuse to get out, was if they met someone else online where: need more space, more time to reflect, or not ready, not feeling it for you, it is not you it's me(a very typical American male trade, have never notice any not American man even know phrases like this)
400 claimed that it is an addiction, and there is always someone better, and they will probably need help to permanently stop looking.
I am not trying to say that women are better than man.. And to tell you the truth I have met better man than women thru my not yet very long life experience. Each one of us can make a small conclusion out of it.
Lady/Devil best of both worlds