Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 06/01/2006 - 8:28am.
You've got to let this man go. His immature actions are being validated by the way you put up with it. You need to say to yourself I'm worth better than this. Also, you have to say to yourself this guy can't possibly love me. How do you love and then stop talking to someone simply out of spite? How do you never say you're sorry when you hurt someone you love? How do you behave like a child towards someone you love? Next time he stops speaking, you get real busy with friends and family and stop speaking also. Pick out a hobby right now that you'd like to explore. Then when the non-verbal crap starts, start working on that hobby. Just throw yourself into it. While he's being an ass, you are growing and moving out of his line vision. So, when he finally does call, you can say, Oh,Hi, and you are?
You've got to let this man go. His immature actions are being validated by the way you put up with it. You need to say to yourself I'm worth better than this. Also, you have to say to yourself this guy can't possibly love me. How do you love and then stop talking to someone simply out of spite? How do you never say you're sorry when you hurt someone you love? How do you behave like a child towards someone you love? Next time he stops speaking, you get real busy with friends and family and stop speaking also. Pick out a hobby right now that you'd like to explore. Then when the non-verbal crap starts, start working on that hobby. Just throw yourself into it. While he's being an ass, you are growing and moving out of his line vision. So, when he finally does call, you can say, Oh,Hi, and you are?