although i feel sorry for you because i know how you feel about your lost love (hell, we all do...) i must say one small thing: your worst enemy was yourself.. humans, and as far as i see it, specially women, have the "i am not happy" sindrome.. What is it, you ask? It's when you are living your dream come true and you dont feel happy with it. Women need drama on their relationships, you know, the kind of things you see in movies, and since your relationship was going fine you had to change something to make it "more dramatized" so you started questioning his love for you. You should know one thing: if you know a guy trully loves you it will allways because of your true self, not the "self" you showed him because it dosent matter for how long you try to fake it, sooner or later it wears out, so if he's still with you he must love you right?
Yeah you where a paint in the ass by cheating on him, that really suks and it's not something you should be doing to someone you love specially since he pretty much gave up he's personal life to be with you, you should have valorized that.. a lot.. not many ppl do that these days, and forgiving cheating unlike some ppl like to think, it's not an act of desperation, it's an act of courage, a REALLY BIG LOT OF IT!!!
About the lying.. why did you lied to him? what possible reason could you have to lie to him about your feelings? if there is one thing i've learned so far is to never give a shit about other ppl opinions, all that matters is your feelings and his feelings and being able to verbalize them is a giant step for happyness. But be assured, he didnt bought the "i dont love you anymore" crap, but by his anger you should have seen that he was pissed off about you not being able to be true to him, so he left.. thinking your just a chicken who cant admit some bad moves.. he knows you still love him and he probably knows that he still loves you too so why dont you pick up the phone and talk to him? set up a meeting to talk about your relationship and at least for once in your life have the guts to be honest whith him, tell him why you acted like you did. maybe he wont take you back, or maybe you dont deserve to be given a secound chance, but dispite knowing for sure that he hates you what do you have to lose???
The only impossible love is the one you are not going to fight for...
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although i feel sorry for you because i know how you feel about your lost love (hell, we all do...) i must say one small thing: your worst enemy was yourself.. humans, and as far as i see it, specially women, have the "i am not happy" sindrome.. What is it, you ask? It's when you are living your dream come true and you dont feel happy with it. Women need drama on their relationships, you know, the kind of things you see in movies, and since your relationship was going fine you had to change something to make it "more dramatized" so you started questioning his love for you. You should know one thing: if you know a guy trully loves you it will allways because of your true self, not the "self" you showed him because it dosent matter for how long you try to fake it, sooner or later it wears out, so if he's still with you he must love you right?
Yeah you where a paint in the ass by cheating on him, that really suks and it's not something you should be doing to someone you love specially since he pretty much gave up he's personal life to be with you, you should have valorized that.. a lot.. not many ppl do that these days, and forgiving cheating unlike some ppl like to think, it's not an act of desperation, it's an act of courage, a REALLY BIG LOT OF IT!!!
About the lying.. why did you lied to him? what possible reason could you have to lie to him about your feelings? if there is one thing i've learned so far is to never give a shit about other ppl opinions, all that matters is your feelings and his feelings and being able to verbalize them is a giant step for happyness. But be assured, he didnt bought the "i dont love you anymore" crap, but by his anger you should have seen that he was pissed off about you not being able to be true to him, so he left.. thinking your just a chicken who cant admit some bad moves.. he knows you still love him and he probably knows that he still loves you too so why dont you pick up the phone and talk to him? set up a meeting to talk about your relationship and at least for once in your life have the guts to be honest whith him, tell him why you acted like you did. maybe he wont take you back, or maybe you dont deserve to be given a secound chance, but dispite knowing for sure that he hates you what do you have to lose???
The only impossible love is the one you are not going to fight for...