Sounds like you're falling in love. That can be a good start. Also sounds like you recognize there might be a mismatch between you two. Doesn't mean it won't work. My advice, just be yourself. It's a fine line guys have to walk early in a relationship, especially if maybe the chick isn't as interested as he is, and where the line is varies enormously depending on the chicks personality. Overstep her particular line and you'll scare her off, she will find it awkward to see you from then on, and you may never really talk to her again (from a site like relationshit, I'm sure a lot of the guys here can tell you from experience that following your heart relentlessly is not as rewarding as advertised - always remember that us guys are wired-up to go nuts after fertile young women at certain stages in our lives). On the other hand, don't push enough and eventually she may grow comfortable with the idea of you being "just a friend", or worse, some other guy may come along and snap her up and the game will be over. Unless you know her well enough to know which buttons to press to impress her, eg who are her peers (is she the type of girl that is strongly influenced by what her girlfriends gossip about), who are her idols (the lives she admires and wants to emulate), does she care more about appearences or substance, what are her dreams for her life and how can you fit into that, unless you are extremely sure about any of this stuff, you might as well just be yourself. The more you (unobtrusively) learn about her personality, her dreams and desires, the better placed you will be to answer your own question about what you should do. Good luck.

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