Oh, please! Quit coming off like women are so difficult to understand. The majority of "men" can't even be honest with a person when asked, instead of telling someone that they're unhappy in the relationship and would rather end it, they go fucking around causing even more hurt and resentment. That's why when it comes to men, women need to start relying on the four basic f's...
Find 'em
Feel 'em
Fuck 'em
and
Forget 'em.