think he's different?

Why do they do it? Why do they say all this nice shit to you and make you think that maybe they really are different? It's just so massively unneccessary! All they have to say is "I'm sorry, I don't want to see you anymore." Done, end of story. Everybody knows where they stand. But really there has to be a better way of dumoing someone or just expressing your disinterest than standing them up in a coffee shop. What kind of a spineless git does that? Is he 15 or something? Why couldn't he at least have the bollocks to tell me straight? I realise that all these questions don't have answers that are uplifting or cheering in anyway.. And this is just another boring re-run of the same old story; girl meets guy, thinks guy is different, realises that guy is just like every other rotten excuse for a man that she has had the misfortune to encounter over the last few years. How does a girl stop herself from becoming a completely bitter, cynical, bunny-boiling, mental case!!! ARGH!