WHAT CHICKS WANT VS WHAT CHICKS NEED

What Women Want: What You Need to Know.

There's no secret trick to unlock the mysteries of women. (Don't you think if there were one, there'd be world peace and eternal happiness by now?)

There's no secret trick for a reason: If men ever truly understood women, they'd be more responsive to women's feelings, moods and needs. That would, in turn, make women happier and more inclined to have sex.

Sure, it sounds great in theory, but is that what you really want? Think about it. When you're getting sex on a regular basis, you lose your drive to achieve. Hell, you lose your drive to make yourself a sandwich afterwards. So what are the odds that you're going to think up the next great invention afterwards? Pretty damn slim, Sleepy.

See the problem? If men could have sex whenever they wanted, they'd never get out of bed. And without men and women working, all forward progress in society would cease! Our existing civilization would erode and finally collapse. Mankind would devolve back into mouth-breathing cave dwellers. (Albeit, very relaxed mouth-breathing cave dwellers.)

In short, the second every guy can have sex anytime he wants, all the shit that makes modern life worthwhile...goes away. Are you willing to give up your car, your plasma screen, your cable sports or even your porn?

Yeah, we didn't think so. So don't go looking for a solution to the problem of men and women—there isn't one. Because there isn't supposed to be.

Taking Sex Differences Seriously Men and women are different, and it's rooted in our very nature..

Still, just because there's no secret trick to unlocking the mysteries of women doesn't mean there's no point in studying their behavior. After all, in the hunt for beaver, every advantage helps. Especially knowing what beavers are looking for in a hunter.

Much like regular people, women have both needs and wants. Needs are the requirements critical to sustaining their existence, while wants are optional bonuses that just help keep a woman off your back.

And, at the very least, you have to be able to cover off her needs if you expect a chick to talk to you. But you have to be able to fulfill her wants if you expect a chick to let you fuck her.