Anyone Want To Get Revenge On Their Ex?

This is for all you guys that wished you had a great opportunity to get emotional revenge on an ex-girlfriend who coldy dumped you. A quick background. I moved up here about 1 1/2 years ago. After 5 months here i met the most beautiful and intelligent woman where I work. I was the system tech and she was an art instructor. I was instantly attracted to her and after the first date, we were in an instant relationship. We both had our own apartments but spent the weekends together and and often went for walks during the week. She was very sweet and loving, but had had many past boyfriends (red flag) and soon had the urge to tell me she had been a stripper on and off for about 7 years (was dying to tell me this it seemed, but got angry every time i brought up the subject) while getting her bachelors and masters degrees (another red flag, but not as bad a one). The relationship moved way too fast, but hell, i did'nt care. She was, however, very needy and possessive. She did'nt like the fact that i went home from time to time to visit my family (she tried very hard to separate me from them permanently). After about 7 months she was talking about getting engaged and was trying to convince me to move to New York City with her (if she got a job there, that is). She was always broke and i was always having to lend her money (but she would always pay me back once she got a check). We really got along great, but the stress of both our lives (her being broke, her injured back, terrible allergies, relying on her parents to continue helping her financially, my job stress) eventually began to degrade our relationship. She asked to move in with me four months before my lease ran out, but i could not let her because that would violate the lease as would allowing her pets to stay. I asked her to give me two months until i would be in a situation with my job that would allow me to get out of my lease. Well, one Friday night i decide to work on my resume (i usually spent all Friday nights with her) and she calls and tells me she is going for a walk with someone, but would not say who or what gender they are and just says "don't worry". She asked me to call her later to make sure she is alright. I called later, but she never answered. Next day she calls and leaves a message saying we should break up and she wants to be friends (she had done this so many times when i visited my folks or if she got angry). I blow her off and don't call until a week later. At that point she tells me she's seeing someone else now. I'm devestated, of course. I visit in person to avoid being dumped on the phone. I begged her to reconsider but she tells me i'm too young and this other guy is just more mature. I am not the type to cry and of course this is the first time i ever cried in a situation like this, but its brief. Her reasons for breakup: you never showed your emotions, you got too distant, you're too conservative, you're too young, you let your parents tell you what to think. She then says; "Don't you have someone you can spend the weekend with?", and of course she knows there is nobody because she took up all my time and never gave me the opportunity to have other friends. She then tells me to go to Match.com to find someone else.........I always knew she was a selfish and controlling prerson, but never saw this coming. I begged her to move in with me at this point and said to hell with the lease, but she tells me that getting back with me is going backwards not forwards. She also tells me the guy is still married, but separated. She moves in with him two weeks after meeting him because she can't pay her rent. Well, almost two months of misery go by as I spend time with my remaining friends who are very supportive. Suddenly, I start getting voicemail from my ex saying how unintelligent this guy is, that he watches tv every night to the point it keeps her from sleeping, that she has no real feelings for him and that he's just too simple. She says she does not nor could she ever love him but that he is madly in love with her. She tells me how much smarter I am than him. Oh yes, she also tells me how much she misses me. She starts calling more and more and I listen to her gripes as she needs someone to talk to. One evening, she asks me to go to New York City with her the following day as the new guy won't go with her (he also can't afford to give her gas money as he is almost as broke as her and works in a mortuary). I agree to take her and pay for the gas. This makes him very jealous. I went to New York with her with this in mind, and of course when she gets back they have a terrible fight, just as i had hoped. She tells him she is still in love with me and that she does not love him. The guy is dense and this just does not sink in. My revenge starts.................. She is now living with someone she is miserable with. For financial reasons, she can't go anywhere except to the one person she has left that she sopposodly cares for, me. I send an email letting her know that i had been planning to move. I get an instant response of interest from her regarding this, but i don't respond. I go down to help her bring back some of her art works that were in a gallery, and she tells me she wants to spend the day with me. When we get back i tell her to have a nice weekend (I don't mention anything about spending the day together). She ties to kiss me again, just as she did after the New York trip, but i say no. I take her back to her car and as she rolls up her window and waves goodbye, she looks like she's about to cry. I start to feel bad, but remember to focus on the plan and how she dumped me. She starts calling me every day saying how much she can't stand the guy and thanks me for listening. A week after the New York trip they have a (loud) fight and he tells her to get out by the weekend. I keep asking her what she's going to do about this, but i don't ask her to move in with me. A few days later she asks if she can move in with me when i move. I say ok. She's now all excited about moving somewhere with me (we went and looked at apartments today) and I even told her I would consider moving to New York with her if she got the job there (she was estatic about this). I also had a friend arrange to call her answering machine (while she is at work but the new guy is home) and pretend to have met her at work and be interested in seeing her again sometime. The new guy is "not that smart" and had a cheating ex wife so it will be hard for him to believe my ex has not met someone else. She will have to convince him that she does'nt know anything about it in light of the fact that she has told him she does not love him. So, my plan is to find a place, and at the last minute, when she is ready to move out on him, let her know i had met someone else after our breakup and that this other woman (Racheal) wants me to move in with her. I will tell my ex that Racheal does not even want me to talk to my ex anymore and that I respect her wishes. I will later mail my exs' new man a recording ("he's not my boyfriend", she says, "I'm just stuck living with him for financial reasons") of all the complaining and fun she has made behind his back while we were looking for an apartment together. He will even hear the lies she started to make up to explain where she was, to avoid letting him know she was with me. You see, he has no idea she wants to move in with me and that she will leave him, and she has no intention of telling him. She has told him that she does not love him and that they have no future together, but again, the guy is dense and it does not sink in as she still lives with him and he mistakes that for true feelings on her part. This plan will hurt both him and her. She will be stuck with a man she can't stand, and he will be stuck with her knowing how she truly feels about him coupled with the fact that she was going to leave him for the ex boyfriend he "stole" her from. I intend to let her know about Rachael the morning of the move when she is expecting the moving truck to come get her stuff while the new guy is at work. I may change the plan and even let her get her stuff loaded on the truck before I disappear, without any explanation. She will then be stuck with a truckload of stuff and no way to get it all back in his apartment on her own (she has a bad back from a car accident). He has a temper and she is afraid of him, but he's not violent so it will likely be a confusing situation for them both when he finds her stuff in a moving van. She will then have to get creative with an excuse. I will have moved to another apartment by the time this takes place, thanks to my real friends, but she will not know where. I'll update as the plan progresses. This is evil I know, and so many people have tried to talk me out of it, but it's true what they say; nice guys finish last. I was always the nice guy with her, and look what it got me. Dumped. I won't even go into all that i did for her during the year we were together. This is for all the nice guys that got dumped from great heights by women that had their own agenda. I may later email her after all this has passed and let her know that if she wants to get away from the new guy...........she should go to Roomates.com.

Is all of that really necessary? She screwed you over and is now stuck in an unhappy situation as it is--do you really have to go as far as tricking her into thinking you're moving with her? You know who really ends up looking like a jackass at the end of all of this? YOU! So you got screwed over, so has everyone else. Most people don't go to such extremes to get back at their exes.Since you obviously no longer care for this woman, why don't you just drop all of the BS and move on. And be thankful you're not stuck in her situation unable to support yourself, living with someone you don't care about. I don't mean to sound harsh, but your plan is fucked up and maybe a total stranger telling you this will help it sink in.JUST MOVE ON!

Agreed with Jenn. Revenge just causes you to dwell on the pain. Easiest thing to do is just move on. Next her.

Superb plan, you should update and let us know how it turned out. Don't listen to those who advise you against it, they're probably just the kind of people who act like your ex did! Instead be proud of yourself for standing up for being a decent chap. Being a nice guy shouldn't mean being a doormat. You're proof of that. My respect and admiration brother.

Fuck the people who disagree, DO THAT SHIT!!!! Im tired of seeing my friends who most all are good people get fucked over by sluts. Women are money craving dick suckers, and use good people to get what they want. Show her how it feels not only to be heart-broken but to feel like a piece of shit doing that to you. AND about her financial situation? Maybe if she spent less time getting anal pounded and doing well in school/applying herself to work ethics she wouldnt be in that situation. You heard the guy himself, she blew her money like she blew dick.

totally awesome plan stick it right in her ass!! lol!!

Yes, you read that right. Be blessed.

Everyone should do something snarlingly nasty (though not illegal) to people who behave like her. In time, this kind of action will teach the population to either get right or expect consequences.

Take every turn to punish someone for what they did, within the law, and to otherwise show them disdain, and you will successfully reintroduce moral community sanctions. That reverse the last 30 years of progressively worse behavior in relationships and love (thanks, all you boomer cunts).

Fucking do it and be epic!

FP (web dude)

Funny because your listing all these red flags in the story about her but I see all types of red flags concerning your own behavior and your reactions to her bad behavior. Sounds like you were the needy one and she simply played the roll of puppet master. Instead of plotting revenge you need to figure out why you became involved with a person like her in the first place. Relationships 101 Sh*t rarely happens in a vacuum. Getting revenge now might feel great temporarily, but I bet you'll meet someone else and fall into the same insane pattern if you don't figure out your own sh*t. SMH

you might get some kinda enjoyment for getting revenge on her but you won't be happy for what you did .
you may not regret now but you will be for sure .

i talked alot of shit on you earlier for getting tied in with a stripper but ill give you a way to redeem yourself. You tape having conseual sex, it 'accidently gets leaked on the net' and you will destroy anything she ever took for granted for the last ummm second they turned on TV or went outside naturally wanting to destroy and have everything, in turn making men consumerist sluts too. do it, it will not only TURN on other women because they are sexual emotional psychopaths, it will gain respect of Men, who won't gawk at it and pretend they wouldn't do the same to get back at some trash without getting physical. when it is all said and done, you will have less pussies hanging around you, people who recognize manliness honor and respect, will remember people what those things are, and you will look like not a man to be mindfucked with and you are sexually psychotic like females are and you win/win. There are only short term temporary losses you will thank your lucky stars you lost such dirt to begin with. Make a statement. That you still have 2 balls on your sack.

Pure fucking genius! Sounds about like my ex...cept she is much more of a dumb fuck. Let me know how this plays out. Well thought out haha

to me it is obvious that she is the victim of an unmanly misogynist guy,that means y o u mr revenge. she did what she had to do,since she saw you were having issues with moving with her,supporting her dreams,etc.you seem to forget that she has feelings too as a person and that she is not an inferior human being.on the contrary,she took the risk of revealing her history. evidently,you seem to be a person who seeks revenge anyway,and one who offers conditional love.taking revenge on someone who has important life difficulties,is lamentable,especially from a man.in my opinion,you are still exploring your oedipus complex. she was straight and honest,you simply cannot keep up,and so,you can neither be a true friend,nor o non bitter and reliable man.