Chicks with different priorities
so i like this chick........amazing the total oppposite of me...not into fashionable clothes and stuff...she thinks buy buying name brand stuff its like helping the big corp recruit more young kids to work in their sweat shops..we speak about world issues......she has changed my view of life..complete 360 degree turn...how do i make her mine...please we met at a youth group meeting...and met only twice...in person but used to talk on the msn...now she back in school..so she busy trying to finish her book work..what can i do PLEASE HELP
ps. shes doesnt sound like the girl who spends time talkin on the phone. no replys from my emails
Sounds like you're falling
Sounds like you're falling in love. That can be a good start. Also sounds like you recognize there might be a mismatch between you two. Doesn't mean it won't work. My advice, just be yourself. It's a fine line guys have to walk early in a relationship, especially if maybe the chick isn't as interested as he is, and where the line is varies enormously depending on the chicks personality. Overstep her particular line and you'll scare her off, she will find it awkward to see you from then on, and you may never really talk to her again (from a site like relationshit, I'm sure a lot of the guys here can tell you from experience that following your heart relentlessly is not as rewarding as advertised - always remember that us guys are wired-up to go nuts after fertile young women at certain stages in our lives). On the other hand, don't push enough and eventually she may grow comfortable with the idea of you being "just a friend", or worse, some other guy may come along and snap her up and the game will be over. Unless you know her well enough to know which buttons to press to impress her, eg who are her peers (is she the type of girl that is strongly influenced by what her girlfriends gossip about), who are her idols (the lives she admires and wants to emulate), does she care more about appearences or substance, what are her dreams for her life and how can you fit into that, unless you are extremely sure about any of this stuff, you might as well just be yourself. The more you (unobtrusively) learn about her personality, her dreams and desires, the better placed you will be to answer your own question about what you should do. Good luck.
"she has changed my view of
"she has changed my view of life..complete 360 degree turn..."
So... what you're saying is that your view of life remained exactly the same?!.. because if you do a 360 turn you'll be in the exact same position you where before right?
Poor guy
Haha okay c'mon give the kid a break. He comes here desperate for some real relationship advice and you nitpick his trigonometry. :)
Well spotted though, I missed it when I first read it. Anyone here remember Arnie's movie Last Action Hero?
Tony Vivaldi: "What is this, Benedict? First, you're my friend; now you turn a... a 360 on me!"
Benedict (exasperated): "180! You stupid, spaghetti-slurping cretin! 180! If I did a 360... I'd go completely around and end up back where I started!"
Tony Vivaldi (confused): "What?"
Benedict: "Trust me!" [Benedict shoots Tony]
i'll have to see that movie
i'll have to see that movie :)..
Slow Down.......
I Think you should slow down and get some perspective. you may want her because she is different. Relationship are between 2 people and not just the female focus guys have. Never put a women on a pedestal you do not know. Because women talk a good game about things like materialism. But, in the end women like to pick and choose what they are idealistic about.In other words they are full of sh**.Don't act pressed women can smell desperation.
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