I got the line from my Ex "I don't love you anymore&quo

This is hard for me to keep inside so I need to get this out. I am newly divorced and I got the line from my Ex "I don't love you anymore" soon after our first child was born. Apparently after the baby was born, I was no longer needed. I feel so used and hate my Ex with every fiber of my being. I don't think I have ever hated someone so much and don't know how I can every trust a man again. I said my peace, thanks for listening!