my girl

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my girlfriend and i weve been datin for almost 2 years now but b4 that...we had a long story...b4 when we were only goin out for one year we had problems just like other couples but after our anniverssary she broke up with me i didnt really know why and a week after i found out she has a new friend but they werent goin out...then finally after a month she went back to me and things went good for a while...but after awhile i found out shes still talkin to that guy that she broke up with me with...is it right for me to tell her not to see him or talk to him..and is it wrong for her to say i wanna be his friend and i dont care wat u feel?

Re:my girl

If she's still talking to someone she was interested in it's because she's keeping him for a backup plan, or at worst cheating on you with him. Personally, I wouldn't have got back with her to begin with. If it's over once, it will be over again and you'll just waste your time trying work things out when you could meet someone better. Telling her not to see him will just push her away. Start talking to other chicks when she's around so she knows there are other chicks out there who want you and she has to work to keep the relationship going. ;)

Just my .02

BS

"<decz>" wrote:

Telling her not to see him will just push her away.

I see you got a nice discussion going on, I hate to interrupt, but I have an important thing to say - I think its a load of BS. Please dont delete my post, but I really think you havnt thought this through... PM me if you think I am wrong about this.

Re: BS

"Anonymous" wrote:
"<decz>" wrote:

Telling her not to see him will just push her away.

I see you got a nice discussion going on, I hate to interrupt, but I have an important thing to say - I think its a load of BS. Please dont delete my post, but I really think you havnt thought this through... PM me if you think I am wrong about this.

Hmm, how might anyone PM you?? If your not a registered user...pulease enlighten me??

Re:my girl

Good point about the guest PM. lol

As for my explanation of "Don't talk to him". If you tell a girl not to talk to another guy they will think you are overbearing and insecure. Why would a woman want an insecure man?

Re:my girl

Do yourself a favor and dump this bitch. Fact is, she has a roster lined up in case all things fail. Big no no. Don't put up with this shit going into the new year. Merry Christmas.

Re:my girl

Have to agree with Mike.

And telling her not to talk to him is normal, you have been together for a while. Just make a choice you either together or not, nothing in the middle.

:Lady/Devil best of both worlds

:wink: :?: :twisted:

Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re:my girl

TY Decz... I agree with you and Mike... I've been trying to get my sh!t back together, for over a year now , from an eerily similar encounter...It sucks and the longer you let this BS run it's course the harder it is to get over it when he/she finally rips your heart out...And MOST likely that is exactly how it will end...she's just waiting for the bigger better deal...meanwhile she's freaking with you and whomever else is unfortunate enough to be attracted to her...remember this is just my opinion/advice...take it or leave it...I welcome all replies.

on a lighter note...Happy Holidays to All!

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Hi guys and girls, could somebody be so kind and help me out? I arrived here another day due to bing but now are unable to find once again the post I have been reading that time . And before somebody asks, no I'm not blond simply not that great with computers hehe.
Thanks

RE:MY GIRL

Get rid of her, she has LOW SELF ESTEEM...its the trash like that who get the rest of us chicks thrown in the mental basket without cause.

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