a man who never wanted to have sex.

Could answer some questions.

Maybe he just doesn't like you.

It sounds like you just need to move on and find a diffrent guy. What does he say when you rub him and try to get him in the mood?

Have you tried talking to him about it? Maybe he some issue or stress that makes him not want to do it... If that's not the case though I think you should find someone else. Sex is, after all a huge part of relationships and it's not fair for him to expect you to go without it.

Sadly, despite your fabulousness, he is not attracted to you for wahtever stupid reason. Men LOVE sex. Even him I bet (unless he's gay, and then he would want to have sex with men). You need to move on and find a hottie that will f*** your brains out like you want.

you could be scaring him off for one thing. trying to convince him by doing all those things is not going to make him flattered, its going to scare him becasue you will seem like an obsessive freak. i know it seems like a guy is not normal if he doesn't want sex, but maybe there is somthing that you don't know. maybe he is embarresed about his size, or a health problem that would interupt your sex life that he doesn't want you to know about. maybe he is one of the VERY VERY VERY VERY (and i stress the word very) few men that just don't like sex. or he's gay or bi and doesn't want you to know. and i don't want to sound mean, but maybe he just doesn't find you hot, because a lot of men are shallow and only like to sleep with good looking women not some fat stretch marked woman. forget him don't waste your time any more!

You two haven't fucked for 10 years straight? If that's the case then he's getting it somewhere else.

I think the male sex drive is a MYTH!! Every guy I've gone out with since I was 17 wanted it less than I do. Now I'm 33 seeing a 25 year old and I still want it more. If it gets worse after you're married, I see no future there. And all my single girlfriends have the same problem.

You're at the peak of your sexuality.

Some men like sex and want it all the time, while others don't have it a a priority.

While it is possible that he is getting it from somewhere else (I swear, someone has been mooching my Lust Arrows, either that or my supplier is selling some on the side), it is also possible that he simply has a low sex drive.

Have you actually talked to him about it? It sounds like you've done everything but talk to him about it...maybe, and this is a longshot, but give that a try. At the very least you may learn why he doesn't want to have sex.

CA

Go for it!

Hi i have the same problem and its hurting me really bad he doesn't want to have sex with me its been 2 months and before we used to have sex all the time and know hes stressed and he tells me that its not me and that he needs time i don't know if hes cheating but in my mind he did do something and hes not telling me i really need help what should i do i love him but he tells me that he dont want to

When a man is in his teens or twenties, the opportunity to have sex will often overwhelm the desire to sleep. This is often true also when a relationship is brand new. But, as people and relationships age, sex can lose its compelling nature and a good night’s rest can be quite tempting. Or he may just be Stressed out...

Let your husband know, in a very respectful manner, that him not making love to you is making you experience feelings of rejection, which is causing you anguish. If he loves you then he will set aside his own issues to fulfill your needs. It's a touchy subject but it worked for me.

I'm right there with your man. I have given up trying to initiate sex with my wife because the answer was always "no." This doesnt mean that he doesnt find you attractive or desire sex anymore, on the contrary he probably still has very strong desires but has ben beaten down for so long it's just not worth it. The problem is then that continual rejection may lead him to distance himself from you emotionally to protect himself (yes guys are emotionally sensitive too, at least most of us are). That self-imposed isolation then leads to resentment, and a downward spiral of bad feelings all around.

e.g. madonna-whole complex; low sex drive; depression.

who knows?