Gridney/ Yidwithlid the narcissist, liar, and cheater

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First, this POS got a lot of stuff about himself taken down. Wonder how that happened since none of it is a lie. Maybe his dumb wife who believes his 'explanations' or his other victims? I get introduced to this guy by one of his other victims, ...er- friends. He lives on Long Island, works in Manhattan. Within a week he's got me doing cybersex with him. Yeah, he's that slick. His wife doesn't s*ck his d*ck right, she's cold. Then he tells me he hasn't loved his wife in years but he won't leave her because she'd take the kids if she found out. He admits he schmoozes her. 3 weeks into it all he tells me he "finds it difficult but" he's "fallen deeply in love with me." He's offering gifts, makes plans to meet me at a hotel (paid for by his employer), calls me on his cell phone his boss pays for 3-4 times a day. Wants to take me on trips with him. Offers to buy me a camera. Sends me a little homemade porn video of himself...! I am such a mess from the abusive marriage I was in that I fall for it all.

Then I finally ask the person who introduced us what's up - turns out he's been playing her for 2 years, her husband's abusing her because of it and Jeffy boy does nada to help her. And he talks about her like she's garbage to me too. I gotta wonder, am I next? I confront him. He lies more. He threatens this other woman, she goes to the cops and lo and behold they find out he's been doing Hookers since 2000 - 4 years before me!! He was just looking to turn me into a whore for him that he could dump when he got bored. The cops sent me all his reviews of these hookers. Same bad spelling and disgusting talk about women & their body parts. So I paid for a personal search. Got the address of his job, his parents, his publishers. I wanted to make sure they all knew what he really was.

Somehow, he makes it all go away but I don't care how many times he gets it taken down... its going back up! You can bullshit your wife & family but not me. You can ditch your cell phone but I am a human being, you left me in a lot of pain. You hurt a lot of people just to protect yourself. You can get my IP shut down but I will return. Dunetz - you will be held accountable. Let's just CHECK out what Mr. I LOVE YOU, YOU ARE MY SOULMATE, I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER, OUR LOVE WILL GO ON & ON says about the $500+/hr hookers he was doing on his "LUNCH HOUR"... (check the great spelling and buying yourself a prostitute for your birthday! Wonder how he explained this to the stupid wife and all his friends? Do they really think it was... ahem... planted? ) Heh - the brothel madam's doggie has him figured out too:

"I met Laura in Julie's living room. She was a beautiful birthday present . She was wearing a tight black dress which showcased her sexy form...For some reason Julie's dog was not happy I was taking Laura because he was growling at me. She took my hand and we went to a downstairs room. Laura has a sassy personality, she likes to kid around and have a good time. Laura immediately helped my off with my clothes. I couldn't wait to remove her bra to play with her breasts. They were very pretty but on the hard side. After we were both undressed we were doing some heavy DFK..she is a very good kisser. After a few she asked if I would like a BBBJ, and she proceeded to show some excellent form. Great Sucking action and she goes all the way down. I exploded into her mouth, she spits but it was ok..because she finished me off. We talked for a few minites and my birthday boy wanted some more attention. She started going down on me again and when I was hard we put on a miners helmet, she puts it on with her mouth,,,that alone almost made me cum...but I calmed down and sent my little friend spelunking. She preferred the mish position and we went for a while before she came. she has good control of her inner muscles and was hugging my little friend at every opportunity. After she came I rolled over and let her give my friend another birthday Kiss. Once again..I came in her mouth. We hugged for a while and we tried to rouse my friend again, but alas he was too tired. All in all Laura was a great b'day present. I hope to see her again."

Nice for an ethical, religious, family guy isn't it? cough cough. He's got a new online "identity" - Sammy Benoit - go check him out at yidwithlid AT blogspot DOT com

wanna see what a liar Jeff is?

http://www.linkedin.com/pub/4/416/987

He says he has an MBA. Hofstra says he went for a few classes and never completed his MBA. Watch him delete it now.

More on this jerk: http://playersandpsychos.com/search/viewSpecific.php?id=536

Ouch

Don't think you need any advice. You've had lasik eye surgery of the soul and see this so clearly it makes my teeth hurt.

You are very cool.

thanks

Lasik eye surgery of the soul? I like that one.

BTW - on this prick's computer? was found this winner:
http://www.secretsofsexualaddiction.com

Here's more on him, by a friend of one of the abused women:
http://gridney2.cjb.net

Yeah, he's STILL married.

CheckMate!

This turd wrote to CJB and got the link killed. So jerkboy - here's the NEW ONE!!

http://gridney.webhop.net

still blaming everyone but himself

Anonymous wrote:

This turd wrote to CJB and got the link killed. Here's his latest rant about the poor woman who turned him in, in a ditch effort to help him - and how he still blames her for everything

http://stumblingtchatzkahs.blogspot.com

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harrassment

This guy is now harrassing one of his victims, thinking it was her that posted all this. It wasn't.

http://yidwithlid.blogspot.com/2007/03/story-of-gridney.html

I am posting all over the place hoping she sees my apologies - but I am not sorry for posting this obvious cyberbully.

Yona

I had a relationship with a

I had a relationship with a maglinant narcissist for almost 20 years. I am the dumb one. I knew something was wrong I just at the time did not know what it was. I DO NOW!!!!!!!!! The verbal, emotional, and mental abuse is something I struggle everyday to get past. He started a smear campaign against me to everyone we knew and now they all HATE me. I am made out to be the crazy one and he of course is the poor victim. I wish there was some way we could educate women on the symptons of narcissiam. I wish I had known what to look for. Jeff had all the symptons. And of course everything was always my FAULT. I HATE JEFF N. from Tulsa OK. and I will the rest of my life. I would like to warn his next victim but she wouldn't believe me because of course he will change for her. She is STUPID just like I was.

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