I am very bored with my Bf

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Submitted by Visitor on Sun, 04/10/2005 - 6:08am

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Ive been with this guy for almost a year now and its getting seriously boring. at first I thought he was the one, you know the one I always dreamed about. but now he just seems very boring and I feel like I am with this 15 year old kid who just tries to be nice to everybody and is smiling all the time and doesnt do much. I need a man!!! not a boy.. the sex is great though. maybe thats the only reason I am sticking around. he loves me a lot and ı dont hate him, I just feel like he is my little brother. uhhh. any suggestions on how to dump him without feeling guilty. :?

Re:I am very bored with my Bf

Submitted by Visitor on Sun, 04/10/2005 - 4:55pm.

the longer you wait, the guiltier you will feel. you are not a bad person if you move on when it's not working for you. bad people lie and string people along. you don't sound like that. just be straight with him and tell him in person. guys are different, they don't cry and get it all out. he might need to call you one more time. let him vent, as long as it's not abusive -- just make sure you stand your ground. don't send mixed signals. good luck

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Re:I am very bored with my Bf

Submitted by Cupids Arrow on Fri, 04/15/2005 - 8:00pm.

Wow, great sex with your little brother? That sounds...sick. Pleasurable but sick.

So, what is it about him that makes the relationship boring? Have you told him? Is there anything you can do? Or is boredom just an excuse for you to call it quits?

I would examine these questions before deciding on what to do...after all, if you do care about him, boredom won't be an excuse. And if you don't care about him [i]that[/i] way anymore, then break things off but keep the benefits going.