Brutally honest dating advice for the cynical, bitter and jaded.

Fuck it all....

Heres my story: High school taught me the reality of life. id have a crush on a girl, id think they would like me back because they would either stare at me or would smile and say hi. But its was never the case, they would laugh at me when i approach them, call me ugly, and when they had guy friends who were always douchebags they would make a fool out of me. that was the case till senior year. I met this girl who i thought was beautiful inside and out. we would hug each other when we met up to class, talk, flirt, touch, we would be close and she would show signs that i thought that meant she was interested in me. Later on that year i asked her out and she never said anything back to me. All she would do is talk crap about me in class in front of my friends. i would sometimes bring her something to drink because i was a nice guy. She apparently went out with 2 guys over the year. When graduation was close she waited 2 hours near senior checkout and she came and wanted to say goodbye to me, she hugged me tight and asked me to text her, and that was the end of that. Summer came and all summer was trying to show her how i felt this whole time. i tried amounts of times to hang out with her but she always had a story, stupid me didnt know she was bullshitting. i was at sonic one day she texted me and i mentioned i was at sonic, she said she wanted a limeade jokingly but i said ill bring it anyway, and she was acting thankful, when i got to her house she was with her friend and she was being a bitch, her friend talking alot of shit but i persevered and gave her the limeade, she spit it out and complained it was hot, so i told her if she doesnt like it ill take it back, i took it back and she walked away without any care i was there. i tried one last time to finally either put this crush to the end and face the downs or end up being with her. she was being a bitch about it and told me to fuck off. So i moved on, and she texted me back telling me that she wanted to be friends in all, so i agreed. couple of days later after so many text messages i gave up and told her i dont wanna talk to her anymore, she wasnt a "friend" just using me to bitch about her stupid bfs and friends, she told me she hated me, she never liked me, and told me her bf was better than me, so i told her to fuck off. Months go by and im in college, with a new mindset, i dont trust no bitch. i dont feel like socializing with anybody and i feel like everyone is gonna fuck me over, and i know this because it always happens to me. All i see in woman are selfish deceiving manipulative whores, and thats something i dont want, ive finally killed that dream of living happy, Fuck It All

mr broken

sorry your expreience was not so great, not every girl are fuckups, you have to relaxs and take it easy. Dont let that one young lady cloud your judgement of other,beause you might missed out on some good oppertunities of finding that special someone in your life, I know that rejection is a bitch, but you have to let the walls come down and give yourself more chances. you are very young and alot of people are not matured enough to be in relationships or even be causual friends. enjoy life and just try to date and have fun untill you meet about 35 to 40 yrs

thanks for the reply

my judgement is correct, woman are fucking sick. they want male models and guys like the ones from jersey shore. ive recovered from all this shit ive been through. ive also given up on dating, its not for me. woman are shallow, they are bitchy, all they want is more and more. if they dont get it they will fuck you over. all my years of watching relationships and how it forms. you have to look good, you have to be a jerk, and you have to treat them like shit. i cant nor wanna do that. im basically SOL. -life o pain ( forever alone)

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