I can't seem to quite get it
Submitted by Visitor (not verified) on Thu, 09/26/2013 - 1:57am
So I’ve followed most advice I’ve been given, I mean I haven’t got laid in 6 years and I’ve been told I should try to “lower my criteria”. I love a good woman that likes to take control, BDSM style but most pretty woman are looking for those “strong arms” that provides them with a “sense of security”. So I met that girl, we were both pretty drunk, I didn’t think she was super attractive but, we kissed anyway and then we kept texting the days after. I felt selfish because she wasn’t attractive but she had the right attitude, according to my fantasies anyway, she was digging this domination thing. A few weeks later I asked her out and she said “Sure I’ll be there at 3” so we were going to meet, I was rather excited you know, a promising date, but guess what, she never showed up, doesn’t reply to my text anymore and she’s practically ignoring me now, which leaves me somehow clueless. I wonder if I did something wrong or if she’s just one of those undecided women. I mean in terms of her sexuality, she’s rather undecided when it comes to men versus women. But she could have at least tried to say something like “sorry I can’t make it” or “it’s not working out”. Being ignored I think is worst than being rejected. Like, seriously I tried to avoid having any “expectations” but I at least expected a followup. Fucking women, I know what I did wrong. I wasted my time trying to understand them.