Is she a liar or sick or in love with 2 men?

The relationship lasted almost 4 years. To make it short, she was upset and married another men 6 months ago. Now here it comes: The past 6 months she repeatedly came back to me claiming that she made a mistake to marry out of anger. She says she not loves that guy and said xxx times she loves me. However she says she can’t divorce yet cuz the guy paid a lot of money to marry her and she afraid her parents lose face if she split up now. She post couple pics with him pretend to everybody that all is ok. I want to dump her coz I am tired to be her part time lover and I am tired to know that she sleeps with that man day by day. However what makes it really hard is that she keeps on telling me she loves me and I was truly happy with her before all this happened. What shall I do ? I am in bad.shape the more I try to stop/ forget her — she is coming back — there is not a single day I not spend hours thinking about her! Please help !!!

Break that shit off!! Like, yesterday!!!!! Doesn’t matter what she is. Please understand what I am saying: TELL HER TO FUCK OFF AND NEVER BE IN CONTACT WITH HER EVER AGAIN. I went through a relationship (if you could call it that) that was VERY similar, that has finally ended recently. It fucking hurts like hell, and the thoughts of her with the other guy makes me want to puke my heart out, BUT BE DONE WITH THAT SUCCUBUS!!!!!

She made her choices and she needs to live with them. When she got married is when you should have cut all ties with her. Sure you care a lot about her but you have to deal with it. It is over and any further contact with her will just continue the pain.

End it. If she really loves you that much she would end her farce of a marriage to be with you, end of story. It sucks, and it hurts but you cannot keep holding out for her to wake up and smell the damn coffee. You need to go out there and find your true person, the one to whom nothing matters more than you do, who doesn’t care about saving face or some other sod’s money, someone with who it’s just you and her, and with who everything else just becomes noise to the both of you. Commit to not settling for anything less than that. While you’re looking for ir, you will sometimes be lonely and long for having just anything, but trust me, in the end it’s worth it.

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