a relationship or just sex??
I seem to be giving off the wrong kind of vibe. Since my boyfriend left last year i have been 'seeing' different guys and none of them lead any where. i will add i wasn't seeing them all at once. But it always just seems to end up as fuck buddies. I am dating this guy and last night was our 3rd date, we slept together, but i dont want just sex from him, what should i do?
i dont want to give him the wrong impression about me. Im not the kind of girl who sleeps around or is looking for sex only, i get swept up in all the crap that players tell you and im worried that this is guy will be the same. should i sustain from sex for a while? thing is its not like hes pushing me to have sex, i want to just as much, but i dont want that to be the be all and end all.
advice please...
if you've already done it
if you've already done it i'de say it's to late to see how it "could have been"
i'm to the point where when i do find another girl actually worth my time, i'll be more than happy to hold off on the sex thing. keep trying to make relationships based on sex work and you'll get sick of it too :P in the mean time i'll just keep treating them how i've been treated.
Yes
You're already in knee deep. You may as well see where it leads.
I'll Be Watching This One...
This double-standard thing is killing my relationships. I don't see what sense it makes to hold off and deny my sexuality...to me THAT is playing games with a mans head. Someone once said men only enjoy the chase that leads to sex...well...don't expect me to play all sorts of games with your head, man! When you met me you knew instanteously from our conversations that I was NOT a VIRGIN, so go find one to chase and reap the rewards of no sex and do it when you are married, to a virgin! Just because I have sex with you doesn't mean I am a slut and that I am superficial! If you still have to see other women, I am out because I want a relationship with HOT SEX and a man that only wants sex and intellectual conversations with ME (and it leads to a monogamous relationship!) If this is asking too much, GOODBYE!
You'll never know until you go there
Guys get their heads really messed up when they haven't had sex. It causes them to make stupid decisions and say things they don't mean. Have sex, and see if he sticks around after his head clears. That's all you can do.
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