Am i not good enough?!
ok. . every morning I give him boyfriend head. and at night we either have sex or he gets another blow job. . but he still feels the need to look at porn between. . & this makes me feel like i am just not good enough. but I kno everyone looks at porn. but then I know not every guy gets a blow job to start his day. . i jus dont know why I'm feeling this way. .how can I get over this?!

Stop being so hyper sensitive
Stop being so hyper sensitive and comparing yourself to porn stars.
Porn
Is not about you. Men just like to look at pussy's. We like to stair at it. If you really think you're not enough you should ask him if he wants to try swinging. He will say yes. But be sure you only swap with couples. As soon as he sees you fucking another man he will either put you on lock, or not. If not kick his ass to the curb, unless you find you really like swinging, in which case Have Fun.
Ask for more of your own needs
That much sex is going to ramp up any mans sexual energy, to the point that they will want to check out porn during the day. Your man is a lucky dude, hate to put it this way, but what are you getting out of it? Is it Really about the porn, or is there something in this relationship that you want that you aren't asking for, and maybe haven't even articulated to yourself yet.
Good luck
It's not your fault
Some people are addicted to sex,some to porn and some to both.You didn't fail anyone except yourself by taking on ANY blame or guilt about the choices he makes fulfilling his own sexual desires which have absolutely nothing to do with you as a person so please give yourself a break and a little credit too for being the caring person you are.Good luck!.....David
BORING
Holy crap! Blow jobs morning noon and night? He's bored out of his skull! I'm just guessing but I'll wager you never let him touch YOU or go down on the fish taco! A man wants and needs to please a woman, to give her rocking mind blowing orgasms. He's reading porn because he's trying to fill that need voyeuristically. Lay back ( better yet, sit on his chest) and let him make you cum!
the answer is no
Men are never satisfied with what they have at home, sorry. Unless you can morph into a different woman every 5 min you have no chance of satisfying a man like porn does.
Think about-porno girls are always pretending to be so orgasmic. The sexuality they portray is more like that of a man's-easy like sunday morning. They enjoy doing everything under the sun-anal, bestiality (yes, they watch that stuff too), being slapped and beaten. Porn comes off as more exciting. Men aren't bright enough to realize those are ACTRESSES and ACTORS.
That being said, I think men have nonsexual needs they get confused with sexual ones. In other words they are too dumb to recognize their own needs so they go to porn.
Also, pornographers are like psychologists and they know how to suck men in. Men will do what their dicks tell them to so they fall for it hook, line, and sinker.
Why do you have sex with him so much? If you think that will make him stop with the porn, it doesn't seem to be working. I would either a)cut down on sex. After all, he's getting his jollies elsewhere or b)ask him to give up/reduce the porn in exchange for the best sex he could want. I can't guarantee either will work bc of how much men love porn.
holy shit
relax... watching porn isn't about being dissatisfied with your sex life. porn is an escape it lets you live out fantacy. all guys do it and if they say they dont their lying. there is no emotional attachment to these women, it has nothing to do with the women. its the actions being preformed that we get off on. guys are simple..if he loves you, he loves you.. and no amount of porn is going to change that.
WTF
Get real. Porn is just a release, it has absolutely nothing to do with how he feels about you... although it is kind of hard to be involved with someone who is overly self-conscious... it's tiring and confining.
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