Dumped out of the blue
I was dating my guy for a year. We are both 23. Then one day he phones me out of the blue and says he wants to breakup. I was in shock, everything was going well. He said he wasn't attracted to me anymore and he said he didn't know why. What a joke, he was attracted to me the week before, when we slept together! I hanged up the phone. I messaged his friend looking for answers. She told me that he's fickle and wants to be single. It's not my fault. Then the next day he texted me angry that I'd gone to his friend. What the hell was I supposed to do? He broke up with me and didn't even know why! Then he texted that we have lots in common. Well duh, otherwise we wouldn't be together. But I have low self esteem and I don't talk when we go out. Neither of these things are true!
I'm so angry the coward didn't even breakup with me face to face. Then he insults me over text! What a fucking joke and all completely out of the blue. Its been 3 months and I've had no contact with him. He knew I took it badly and hasn't even apologized of coarse. What coward would. I'm so angry this coward took me for a ride. This is the worst breakup I've had so far.
don't worry
there's plenty of great guys out there.
Hang in there!
You will eventually meet a guy who isn't shallow and that actually cares about you. He won't mind waiting because sleeping with you isn't the only important thing in his mind. Do yourself a favor and wait until you have someone you care about. I can tell you from personal experience... it is well worth the wait.
You're not alone
Hi there, I went through exactly the same situation as you 6 weeks ago. My ex, who I loved more than anything, dumped me out of the blue. He didnt give a reason. We met up a couple of times afterwards and had sex. I then found out that he was with someone else and that was why he dumped me cos he wanted to be with her. He had no intention of getting back with me and to this day I dont know why he wanted to meet me for sex when had a new gf. I text him telling him to stay away from me to which he basically replied "fine". I then went home, locked myself away and cried for the whole night. Now, that might seem for some to be weak, but I can tell you Ive never felt so much heartache before. I just wanted to die. I know exactly how it feels hun, and the worst part is that you feel like your the only person that has felt like it.....trust me your not.
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