Lier Lier!!
I broke up with my boyfriend of two years about a week ago...There were plenty of reasons, and I really feel like it was the right thing to do. He always lied about things and hid stuff from me...What really made me mad was he lied about stupid stuff, but I figure if he lies about stupid stuff he'll lie about anything. He never cheated on me, and he really was a sweet guy, but it hurt me too much to keep being lied to...he promised me so many times that he would stop lying to me, but he never did. I really got to a point where I didn't believe hardly anything he told me, and questioned him on everything. Then, to make matter worse, anytime I found out about something he lied to me about, he would get mad at me basically because I busted him...and he would ignore me. I guess ignoring me was his way of dealing with being mad at me, but I hated that so much, especially since I didn't do anything...he was the one that lied and started it all.
Anyway, I really miss him, and I feel bad some times and think that I did the wrong thing. He was such a sweet guy and did so much for me...he said he wanted to be with me forever...we had so many dreams of what we wanted to do together...so, sometimes I start feeling guilty and feeling like I screwed everything up. I miss being with him, but I really don't miss being lied to and worrying about if he's telling me the truth about things all the time.
Did I do the right thing by leaving him? I was so happy with him, but his lying and ignoring me just killed everything for me....I stayed with him for two years waiting for him to change and stop lying but he never did...I mean, really, he started lying to me very soon after we first started dating. I guess I should have seen this coming. Will I find someone else that makes me as happy as he did without the lying?
It takes getting through a
It takes getting through a lot of douchebags in order to find tha right one. If yer not totally comfortable in a relationship, it isn't worth it. But when u do find that one, it'll make all th9is bullshit worth going through... ya know?
I went through the same
I went through the same thing. There is light at the end of the tunnel don't worry. Live and learn.
don't marry him
Definitely don't make him a husband! The longer you stay with him you are gonna think if I marry him like so many women out there today he will change. If he tells quote unquote lil white lies so you wont get mad what happens years down the line when you have more time invested in the relationship when he lies about something else? The longer you stay with him the harder it will be for you years down the line to leave him which at that time you will then have kids, mortgage etc... and then you will feel like you cant leave so you will end up staying in an unhealthy relationship. Drop him now cause his lies will only get more clever to cover up current lies he has told.
Words of advice
Woman, wake up! This man was whoring around plain and simple. Don't focus on the lies honey, focus on the pain that this man is causing you. He is a cheater and needs to be dumped. He is having his cake and eating it too because you won't see him for who he is. You did the right thing and you’ll be better off! As for my husband, I consulted my family and friends, and I needed them for a while, I consulted a lawyer (didn’t t tell him so that he can make plans to beat me to the punch). Get your dignity and self respect back!!!
Rotten is what rotten does!
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