staying friends with a "friend with benefits"
i’m kind of seeing one of my best friends, but we both don’t want to date. i really like him, and the relationship escalated to “with benefits” probly because of my crush on him…
this guy was my ex’s best friend. when my ex moved away, in just a few weeks we started seeing each other. it started from a night of hard drinking and just having some fun. it was a great time that we both don’t regret! we’ve started seeing each other more, and it’s been a totally new experience for me. i had never been with anyone before who i wasn’t in a committed relationship with.
he’s a total ass! i think at this point i feel like he’s mocking me when i stay over. he knows that i will just come back when i need a lay.. i don’t deny it but damn! i guess i do make it easy for him, but that’s because we flirt so easily and hang out alone a lot.
how can i tell if after we decide to either start seeing other people or just not sleep together anymore that we are still going to be friends? i love him to death as a friend, and i would hate to just never hang out anymore. i love how the sex is just a little bit extra.. we are not lovers. it’s actually a great feeling.. but i feel shitty when he doesn’t want me to stay after..
just tell me if i’m being a stupid skank. i already feel like it. i guess i just want to know if anyone else has been there and what they do to keep him around.. but not too close so we don’t hurt each other.