She finally admitted it -- she's been fucking her ex

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I’ve been dating a woman for the past 2 1/2 years in a supposedly exclusive relationship. She and her ex (she was 2 years divorced when we started dating) had built a house together – he’s a contractor – and he had a number of things to do around the house as a part of the divorce decree (building-type things). So he would come around (he lives out of town), and she would get upset and really be wierd for a week or so. She finally admitted that she was fucking him whenever she could get him into the house (didn’t work every time but she tried). No it didn’t occur to her that an exclusive relationship meants you didn’t fuck anyone else (she said, ‘I didn’t date much as a teenager and I don’t understand the protocol’!). Not that I blame him – she’s a great fuck. But I blame her. Anyway, I cut her off once she admitted it and I told her how I felt (I was respectiful). I haven’t talked to her, I quit taking her phone calls, I reject her e-mails, na-da. And yeah, it hurt a lot. It still bothers me but that will pass. I just wanted to bitch!

Hey congrats on doing the right things in order to get over her. Sucks she pulled such utter bullshit, “I don’t know the protocol”!!!??!?!? Did you at least laugh in her face when she said this? I know I would have. Dunno man, for me a huge red flag is any chick who still hangs with/see’s her ex.

”decz” wrote:
Dunno man, for me a huge red flag is any chick who still hangs with/see’s her ex.
This is very true. A couple of years ago I let me then-girlfriend start talking to her ex again (she said she missed him ‘as a friend’). Next thing I knew she was telling me how sorry she was for falling for him again. Took her a while to tell me, too. Fucking bitch. One of the best ways to become happy after being viciously screwed, is to focus all your hatred and anger and negative feelings on that bitch ex of yours, to the point where there’s no more negativity left for anything else.

”Anonymous” wrote:
”decz” wrote:
Dunno man, for me a huge red flag is any chick who still hangs with/see’s her ex.
This is very true. A couple of years ago I let me then-girlfriend start talking to her ex again (she said she missed him ‘as a friend’). Next thing I knew she was telling me how sorry she was for falling for him again. Took her a while to tell me, too. Fucking bitch. One of the best ways to become happy after being viciously screwed, is to focus all your hatred and anger and negative feelings on that bitch ex of yours, to the point where there’s no more negativity left for anything else.
I find it’s easier just to focus all that anger into your workout. One hell of a pump and you feel GREAT after you leave the gym. As for the ex-bf red flag. I also am running into this ex-bf red flag. Started seeing a chick who recently started communicating with an ex of her’s via Myspace. Just gotta figure out how to lay it down that chillin with an ex = goodbye b1tch. :roll:

THERE ARE NO MALE FRIENDS FOR CHICKS. PERIOD.ANY CHICK THAT HAS MALE FRIENDS–RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN SEX SEX SEX, BAD NEWS.

THERE SHOULD BE NO TEXTING

no commication whatsoever, with exs, fuck buddies, etc…when in a committed relationship. Period.

see now I have to disagree I have lots of male friend and I maintained these friends during my marriage and now my husband is gone but I still hve all these great male friends. Btw incase you were wondering what happened in the marriage it was my husband cheated with one of his female “friends” which sucks but I really believe if you are with someone where it is just in their nature to cheat it doesn’t matter if they have opposite sex friends or not because if it is their nature they will go find some random and do it anyway.

Omg that last comment was hilarious, but tragically so. Look, I don’t want to be nasty but here’s what the conversation would be like if you met the poster at a bus-stop. Poster: See, I have to disagree. A woman CAN have guy friends. And theres no reason why marriage should affect that. I did it! You: Wow. You are sooooooo lucky! I guess you marriage must be really strong! Poster: Oh, I’m not married anymore. But me and my guy friends are STILL together! You: …Really. See, after being subjected to a few episodes of “Friends”, seeing women and *ugh* men who grew up watching “Friends” and actually tried to recreate those utopian sitcom relationships despite the real-life absence of that cheesy *uh oh here come the adverts* music, I now subscribe to Chris Rock’s theory of “friendships” between men and women: Men DON’T have women friends. Men only have women in their lives who they haven’t fucked……….YET. “…Wait….hang on, just give me some more time…I can figure this out…” And women don’t have men friends either. Women just have men they keep in their lives JUST IN CASE. You know what a male friend is to a woman? It’s a DICK IN A GLASS JAR. “IN CASE OF EMERGENCY…BREAK THE GLASS”. hahahaha ahhhhhhh the honesty is therapeutic…

Dump That Bitch!!! (I hear Tom Leykis’ voice in the background LOL)

There is a certain bond between a woman and the father of her children. She married him for a reason. If you don’t think at sometime she is going to sleep with her ex you are naive.

My wife and her ex share custody of her children. He has them every weekend. She stops them off on Friday and he brings them here Sunday night.

Many times during the winter the weather has forced her to stay at his place to avoid driving home in a blizzard. I had asked her what the sleeping arrangements were when this happens and she told me that she sleeps in his bed and he sleeps on the couch.

After a couple winters I had asked her if he ever tried anything on her while she spent the night. This opened a can of worms I didn’t expect or was ready for.

The first few times this happened they acted purely platonic and nothing happened. As time went on though she had admitted to sleeping with him on several occasions.

While i was stunned and disappointed we talked it over and I came to the realization that it was inevitable that they would have sex after everything they had shared during their previous relationship.

You have 2 choices. You can accept that it may/will happen at some point and continue to love her for who she is. Or you can be pissed and leave her.

I chose to accept it. While we don’t talk about it a lot we both know and accept that there are times that they are going to sleep together and she has never lied to me about anything that has happened.

The comment just above mine is what a punk pussy bitch says. Fuck that cheating whore. She should just get back together with her ex or stay single because she’s just using her current man.

agree with the dude above me Andy is a beta male that would clean her x husbands cum from her pussy,probably a cuck too.

I have a few ex boyfriends that are now friends with benefits. I can only go out with a new guy for 8/11 months maybe a year if lucky. My break ups are OK and we most often get along afterwards. But here’s one thing. when i am new single I’ll call and ex to hook up and get a good fucking and gave slutty blowjobs which all my Exes rave about. Here’s the thing i think I’m getting into the habit of dating then breaking up just to get my Exes great fuck sessions. Some time I’ll call 3 or 4 and have a week of cock. A few of my Exes told me they have actually waited for me to fall for a fucking around the time I’m getting ready to dump a boyfriend. I’m in my 30s and I’ve been doing this since high school. I have even hooked up with high school boys that I regularly fucked in school. A few of my oldes boyfriends did like make arrangement and stopped fucking me. Sure enough they all changed their minds when I was single they all came around for more blowjobs and my pussy. Renee

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