Virginity, is it just another fad?
Saving yourself for marriage? Really? Why..?
The media makes a big deal about virginity. There are religious sites dedicated to it (darn funny ones, if you ask us). It's even kind of trendy right now.
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But that's bullshit.
Sex is nothing more and nothing less than sex. A hot, sweating, noisy, bonding of two human beings.
For a lot of people it's recreational. A way to blow off some steam. But for some people it's such an intimate experience that a bad one can scar them for life.
Wake up
"Saving" your virginity for that special someone is a pipe-dream. No one will ever live up to your knight in shining armor fantasy. You'll only be disappointed and old. But saving your virginity because you are extremely particular about who you interact with isn't a bad idea. For some people.
If you are very empathetic, emotional or cry easily, you might not want to jump into bed with someone who's out for a good time (ie--all men.) So take your time about finding the right person. (But don't get all sanctimonious about your virginity. It's not some "gift" you bestow on someone. Don't blow its importance out of proportion. It's a big moment, yes, but it's not the fucking Second Coming.)
We don't advocate losing your virginity just to get out of The Virgin Club. But, thanks to religion and the media, young people tend to place unrealistic expectations on finally having sex.
It's not that big a deal.
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In fact, it's only as big a deal as you make it. If you think it's a huge event, it will be in your mind. And the longer you wait, the more of a big deal it becomes.
This is not to say you should lose it ASAP. To be honest, we don't think people should have sex until they're at least 18.
Why? Because they can't handle the consequences. If they get pregnant or a sexually transmitted disease, they aren't emotionally or financially equipped to deal with it. Seriously, they're not.
Just relax, you'll have plenty of time to screw as an adult.
FOR GIRLS: If some guy pressures you to have sex with him (and trust us, it's only a matter of time before one does), just stick your hands down his pants and give him a handjob. He'll shut up for awhile.
virginity...once you lose it, it's gone
virginity is really not that big of deal. Honestly, if you end up a 30+ year old virgin, then you should be embarresed and ashamed. Get some as soon as possible.
Virginity...Important for some...
Hey, Virginity is important, and if you choose to hold on to it until the day you die, great, if you don't great. What I'm saying is make a choice. Decide what is best for you. Don't just something happen, Don't just save it to save it, and don't just give it away either. And that's why Virginity is important, if you chose it to be. I did. I'm a 22 year old virgin, why? I refuse to let some random good for nothing be the first to get me. NO F***ing way. My body is a temple nothing less than has a chance to worship here, I'm a temple but not a church, sorry only Jesus will take you as you are...I won't. Unless you meet my standards and yes I'm picky. Also most guys just want sex, and then want to hit the road...I've seen too many of my friends hurt that way, while I am the only virgin in my crew, I cry much less than anyone I know, and I never go to STD clinics. So its a choice. For me its important, but to me sex is always important. Even if I wasn't a virgin, I wouldn't be having sex right now, cuz there is no one around I find worthy enough to have it with. So I'm waiting, I know no guy is perfect, duh. I'm not waiting for my Knight, but I'm definitely waiting for someone with long term potential.
ditto!
ditto!
That's great and all, but if
That's great and all, but if you haven't been able to find a guy wanting a long term relationship at your age than you've got a problem. Plus any guy your age will definitely put up with no sex for long. Your obviously very frigid and that's not a winning trait. My advice? Either put out and enter the world of sex and dating, or look for an older guy who maybe doesn't care as much about sex. However that might land you married to the wrong guy because you aren't experienced with guys to tell he's a bad choice and you get overly emotionally attached because he's your "one"
I'm happy to say I lost my
I'm happy to say I lost my virginity at the right moment with the right guy. It meant I had to wait until I was good and mature (in my 20s), but it was worth the wait. Not putting virginity on a pedestal is good advice. It is worth something, but it's not everything. Same goes for sex.
Wait, until he's not waiting
I was in a relationship for a year+ and my ex-boyfriend was always pushing for sex. I never gave in for a lot of reasons, I got called a lot of names for it but I didn't gave in, I just didn't feel right being pushed into it. It was a long relationship but it was really hard and the ending was really bloody. After I left him I got with a long time friend who wasn't expecting anything out of our relationship at all. We had a far better relationship because there was no pressure for either of us. We ended up a lot happier and I gave myself to him pretty quickly. The relationship ended romantically but we are still best friends and care a lot about each other. Any advice I would give to young women is be careful and picky, but don't be stingy either.
I wouldn't buy a car without
I wouldn't buy a car without taking it for a test drive first.... I think it works the same way for genitalia.
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