Write a personal ad.

Contrary to what most people think, writing a personal ad is NOT the last resort of a lonely, desperate loser (necrophilia is).

Going the personals route simply means you've finally figured out that you can't judge your compatibility with someone from what they look like in a dark bar while wearing beer-goggles.

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Nobody can. That's why the "usual" way of meeting men in bars, clubs and police lineups is usually fucking stupid.

Assuming you want to lower your rejection rate and improve your odds of long-term happiness, personal ads are the best way to go.