understanding women - how they fall in love.
There’s an old adage that says, Women give sex to get love, whereas men give love to get sex. And, for the most part, that’s true. It’s just a bad deal for women since men can fake love pretty easily.
Not surprisingly, this sex-for-love approach proves disastrous for women: Boy tells girl he loves her, boy gets sex, then boy tells girl to hit the bricks.
Yet, literally centuries later — despite mountains of evidence and experience to the contrary — there are still women who insist on using that approach (which is probably why teen pregnancies are on the rise, and successful relationships are harder to find than Amelia Earhart).
Against all reason, women consider these emotionally driven decisions to be reasonable ones. (“Putting your hand into a blender is okay as long as you do it for love!”). They’re endlessly willing to gamble on lottery-style odds, falling in love with men regardless of whether the relationship is workable or not (“He's just misunderstood! I can make him stop serial killing…”). It'd be endearing, if it wasn’t so insane.
Why Women Want What They Can't Have:
Why So Many Relationships Fail.Most guys, by contrast, realize early on that, when it comes to life-altering decisions, their brain (or what passes for it) is best suited to making the call. When men let other body parts do the thinking, they end up in some ugly girl’s bed trying to sneak out without waking her up.
What Men Know That Women Don't:
How to Love Women Without Losing Your SoulMore often than not, men go into a relationship pragmatically, deciding whether or not they can live with a girl, before getting emotionally attached. That way they get to really know a girl before they fall in love.
Men need to view love more seriously than women do because they have so much more to lose — least of which is the freedom to have sex with other women. Once they commit to a relationship, men are more fully invested, emotionally.
Women, on the other hand, fall in love impulsively. For women, love is a casual lark. A cheap thrill. Like riding a roller coaster. Or shoplifting. Then, if the relationship goes South on them, they can cry a lot and get lots of sympathy — in other words, attention — mission accomplished!
It’s like a game. A stupid, fucked up game.
So don’t get suckered into making a life-commitment just because a woman says she loves you. Remember, it’s a woman’s prerogative to change her mind. And if you ever forget that, you’re totally screwed.
i can't even begin
This is so ridiculous I can't even begin to say what I think of it. A load of crap, guys.
not really
In fact, it's spot on. Remember, men like to analyze things. Women do this less, and one reason is because sometimes they don't like what they learn after their analysis... so they stick with living a life driven by emotion.
Now obviously not all women are this way, and there's a continuum of different ladies, some driven purely by emotion all the way up to those driven purely by logic. However, if you histogram women on this continuum, they will be pretty solidy to the left, with men solidly to the right. I'd guess that their median locations are at least 1 standard deviation apart.
Does this comment make my ass look big?
amen to the last part
amen to the last part brother
Actually, I'm a gay man and
Actually, I'm a gay man and this is totally true. All of it...cuz gay men are part woman and part man. I am the man, he is the woman in regards to "love". Strangely, when it comes to money, its the other way around...I am the woman, I want everything (cash, credit cards, travel, gifts) for love, he wants to give as little as possible for sex. I'm not willing to settle, so I'm saying "buh-bye"!!
its not a load.
I'm a chick, and I'm gonna have to be honest. This whole website is 100% on point, and any chick that thinks it isn't is kidding herself.
Wow
Thanks For The Heads Up On That.. Im Gonna Use This On A Current Girl I Know Haha
Excellent Website!
Wow, this website is the shit!! I knew something was up with women so I stayed single for a long time until I could at least get a TRUE and ACCURATE snapshot! This website is the TRUE and ACCURATE snapshot! I say so not only because the info just sits right with me (I'm a business man so I'm use to using my 6th sense) but also the info lines up with what I have seen in my friends/families FAILED marriages and relationships.
LOL, I feel so relieved that I found this place. It's like a safe haven from all the maddnes!!
Excellent Website!
Wow, this website is the shit!! I knew something was up with women so I stayed single for a long time until I could at least get a TRUE and ACCURATE snapshot! This website is the TRUE and ACCURATE snapshot! I say so not only because the info just sits right with me (I'm a business man so I'm use to using my 6th sense) but also the info lines up with what I have seen in my friends/families FAILED marriages and relationships.
LOL, I feel so relieved that I found this place. It's like a safe haven from all the maddnes!!
Very True
Been with a bitch for 10 years that didn't love me, she loved my wallet. When the money ran out, so did she.
True, but not explained in specifics
"Boy tells girl he loves her, boy gets sex, then boy tells girl to hit the road"
This only works FOR THE BOY THE GIRL ALREADY LIKES.
If the average guy tried it he wouldn't succeed.
Why do people even try
Actually, I'm a girl, and this is why I avoid dating and "love" and sex, because it's all bullshit. Too often, men are full of shit, and I'm not going to give a fool a chance. You wonder why women get cold? It's because some of them DO care, and they give and give and give, but then no one takes them seriously. Why try if people don't get you. How easy it is to just stereotype everyone and tell people that all men and all women are superficial sex objects, and that all people are shallow?
Respect
Love that last comment....some women really do care and in the end you do just give up, your right on that one....i would love a boyfriend but all i find is guys just wanting sex boring.....
I want to murder Bitches now!
I want to murder Bitches now!
I've only read truths
It's like a game. A stupid, fucked up game.
EXACTLY, but if you're ugly u already lost...
PS: Women really are mentally ill
Wow
Talk about men playing the victim on this website. HAHAHA! What a bunch a men on their rags, like really man up. Ever heard of something called honesty? If you just wanna get laid, ASK. Trust me, I am a woman, and we want sex just as much as you do. It's the idiots that lie to themselves and their women who are treated in this manipulative way. What a bunch of B.S. Was this written by a highschool boy? LMAO!!
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