What chicks want vs what chicks need.
There's no secret trick to unlock the mysteries of women. (Don't you think if there were one, there'd be world peace and eternal happiness by now?)
There's no secret trick for a reason: If men ever truly understood women, they'd be more responsive to women's feelings, moods and needs. That would, in turn, make women happier and more inclined to have sex.
Sure, it sounds great in theory, but is that what you really want? Think about it. When you're getting sex on a regular basis, you lose your drive to achieve. Hell, you lose your drive to make yourself a sandwich afterward. So what are the odds that you're going to think up the next great invention afterward? Pretty damn slim, Sleepy.
What Women Want:
What You Need to Know.See the problem? If men could have sex whenever they wanted, they'd never get out of bed. And without men and women working, all forward progress in society would cease! Our existing civilization would erode and finally collapse. Mankind would devolve back into mouth-breathing cave dwellers. (Albeit, very relaxed mouth-breathing cave dwellers.)
In short, the second every guy can have sex anytime he wants, all the shit that makes modern life worthwhile...goes away. Are you willing to give up your car, your plasma screen, your cable sports or even your porn?
Yeah, we didn't think so. So don't go looking for a solution to the problem of men and women—there isn't one. Because there isn't supposed to be.
Taking Sex Differences Seriously
Men and women are different, and it's rooted in our very nature..Still, just because there's no secret trick to unlocking the mysteries of women doesn't mean there's no point in studying their behavior. After all, in the hunt for beaver, every advantage helps. Especially knowing what beavers are looking for in a hunter.
Much like regular people, women have both needs and wants. Needs are the requirements critical to sustaining their existence, while wants are optional bonuses that just help keep a woman off your back.
And, at the very least, you have to be able to cover off her needs if you expect a chick to talk to you. But you have to be able to fulfill her wants if you expect a chick to let you fuck her.
Fuck fucking!
Although some of my fondest memories are of exactly that "fucking," it's all a mind-fuck in the end. Useless for all intensive purposes. A true "want" not "need." Anything that "jerking-off" can remedy, should give us at least a clue as to it's true value or there lack of it in this case. Wants are a suckers bet!
At your feet or at your throat.
It has cost me 48 years, a DUI, and thousands of dollars to see through the illusion of love. Your woman is a person just like you except she owns what you want, and realizes it. Look out for yourself from the get-go! you can and must be utterly ruthless in this. Society especially television fills you full of lies about how life is supposed to be. The reality is the person in bed next to you can cost you every penny you have plus your very sanity. remember the asshole from school you hated enough to murder, your current love may be 2 degrees away except she happens to own a vagina. Don forget that.
Here are some red flags that mean you need to go, NOW.
1. Cutting off sex. (You dont know how to please me!)
2. Being stingy especially when you ask for help.
3. Comingling of finances but she takes from you while giving the bare minimum.
4. Flirting with others, if you have to dig to find it, do not wait, GO NOW. Once a cheater , always a cheater.
5. Irresponsibility with money. My ex was a degenerate gambler. We bought a house in 1997 and the mortgage was $960. If she hadnt used all the worthless credit cards they send you i'd still be there. As it is we have had two refis, the value is abou $260k and this is the mortgage, and the house va;ue is probably underwater. All because i could not say no to this crazy woman.
6, ok here is the upshot for all you young fellows. Please do learn from my experience. Love is largely an illusion. If and when you find true love (i heard tell of such) you will know. When she starts raising huge red flags all over, plan your exit now! I know you are hopped up on the brain poontang chemical now but listen to your logic. YOU MUST! Look out for you and only you. trust me, the bitch you are with is thinking exactly the same way.
If the girl you are with pops even one red flag, prepare your back up plan, even if its a whore. The cost is practically the same after all. Find another woman to hold in reserve. A woman who wants only a now and again boff. She may be older and uglier but this is fine, it is crucial to your morale to counter dumping or being dumped. Whats more an older broad may help you put things into perspective in your life. Like i said, regardless of their face or figure, women are exactly like you and me and have no magical powers except they can and will destroy you without even meaning to.
that comment is the shit...so
that comment is the shit...so true
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