Are you just fuck-buddies?
What’s a fuck-buddy? It’s the testosterone-addled wet-dream of every red-blooded young man with a loaded love-gun and nowhere to point it. (In other words, it’s fucking a friend.)
How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure:
Techniques Women Want Men to Know.The idea, quite simply, is to find a female “friend” who you already like, who you can recreationally screw, without attachments or hurt feelings, for the mutual orgasming of both parties involved. It sounds like a great idea, and it is — for guys.
Taboo:
Forbidden Fantasies for CouplesFor women, the fuck-buddy (aka “friend with benefits”) idea is a pipe dream. Since the 1970s, women have wanted to believe they could remain uninvolved during sex — like every male on the planet — but, barring a frontal lobotomy, they most likely can’t.
Sex, for most women, is a very emotional and bonding experience. It’s extremely hard — although not impossible — for women to separate the physical act of fucking from the emotional effect of attachment. Worse, the more times a man goes back to the Fuck-Buddy well, the stronger that emotional bond for the woman becomes. In other words, the longer you fuck your fuck-buddy, the harder it will be for her when you finally dump her ass because you found a girl you actually might want to commit to.
By “beating the system,” you’re simply taking advantage of a self-delusional “modern” woman. Though she won’t come right out and say it, she secretly hopes (or believes) that after enough sex with her, you’ll fall in love. Because that’s what’s happening to her.
Now sure, you say, “That’s her fucking problem.” And it is. But, the fuck-buddy approach doesn’t pay off long-term for you, either. Put bluntly, you can’t have a fuck-buddy and still find a woman to get serious with. Why not? Because you’re not motivated enough to.
She Comes First:
The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a WomanA fuck-buddy gives you a safe “out.” A fallback plan in the event that working the single’s scene doesn't work out that night. With a Fuck-Buddy waiting spread-eagled in the wings, you’re not out giving the girl search 110-percent.
You’ll be packing up your blue-balls and going home the minute the going gets tough. With a FB, you won’t be taking chances, looking for opportunities, or “putting yourself out there.” You’ll just get drunk at the bar, spit up on a few women, get slapped and go home crying.
Worse, even if you do eventually meet someone new, you’ll be overly critical of her, because her reality will have to be better than your FB’s fantasy. You’ll be so overly critical, in fact, you might not get past that ‘666’ birthmark on her forehead to find out she’s otherwise a great girl.
Instead, you’ll go home to your ‘standby’ vagina and never realize you missed out on meeting someone special. And while you’re sticking it to your FB, the potential love of your life is going home to some guy named Raoul to be HIS fuck-buddy. And he will do disgusting things to her. Foul, unholy things...
Oh, yeah, there’s also a good chance you’ll accidentally knock up your FB and have to marry a girl you don’t love in order to avoid being murdered by her criminally insane father.
Face it, you’re just being a pussy. Come on, dude: fucking a friend? Really? Man up, you douchebag. At the end of the day, by screwing over a “willing” “friend,” you're only screwing yourself over, too.
I disagree, fuck buddies are
I disagree, fuck buddies are cheaper than prostitutes
I disagree as well. What if
I disagree as well. What if you don't want to find Ms Right? What if you don't want to get Married... ever. Finding Mrs Right shouldn't be an issue.
Wrong, wrong, wrong
Fuck buddies are a good answer
There is no Ms right. The first clue is the Ms.
There is an entire generation of women (maybe two) that have been so screwed up by the feminist princess model, that there is next to no hope for them.
Is it ALL women, no. But it is like lawyers ... the 99% bad ones give the others a bad name.
What if you already have a
What if you already have a Ms. Right ;-)
well....
if you already have ms. right your FUCKED
WRONG
I am disappointed by your article here. Totally wrong. 1) Fuck Buddies are great, bad for the woman, but great for the man. 2) there is no such a thing as Ms. Right! Ms. right will end up giving you daily headaches and shit. Even if you are willing to settle down, and even marry (!!! :^O) very soon she will not be ms. right anymore. 3) there are guys -like myself- who don't want to commit to no more ms. right. they don't want to get married or even have a serious long-term.
Ms right!!! fuck it!
They are all bitches, Fuck buddy can not take your vehicule and your monney, beside YOUR WIFE CAN!!!!!!
wtf
look mother fucker just because your ideal bitch is a fuck buddy does not mean that all guys and or girls want that too... as the article says as you guys are gettin off to the fact you got a fuck buddy with no strings attached what so ever our feelings are held in your hands because regardless of what girls say we do have emotional attachments to you and when you sleep with your so called "fuck buddy" theres only hope on our end that it will some day be something wayy more than that.. but most guys dont give two fucks about anything but fuckin whatever bitch they can and thats exactly why guys get the name "peice of shit" because you think with the wrong head as always i mean seriously have some consideration for us girls really!
Something wrong with fucking a friend...
...and not have to spend as much time and money, and call me a wuss; I bet a chick or a pussy whipped took over this section of the article because it got instantaneously crappy.
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I met this guy nd we were just gonna be friends at first but then we started to make out nd we did stuff nd I thought he liked me but he's hella demanding nd wants to fuck now what should I do about that ? And yes I am a girl
fuck buddies,a very bad idea
but if you are going to go that route,please be prepaid to deal with th consequences.I know that you are no dumbie and should'nt take rocket scientist to tell you that it is a bad idea, you already know the answer. I been in that same situation before and i struggle with the same predicament and im married,but my concious is what set me free from going down that road. The bottom line is, can you live with your self if you choose to go down that road, you are worthy of more that just a piece of ass on a now and then basis. you have to ask yourself if it is really worth it. He will move on to the next and the next.
I'm a girl, a fuck buddy....
And this guy gives the best sex I could've ever imagined. Besides that though, it is true we women get attached. I'm in love with him and trying hard to deal with it. When I go home I wish I could stick around and take care of him. Give him a massage, cook for him. I see the clothes lying around his room and wish I could start organizing his room, washing his clothes...because I love him. But he's too stupid to realize he might be missing out on something good. So, eventually, I'll move on. Hey guys, there might be something worthwhile behind that fuck buddy:(
Buddy
Nice article and sex is a very emotional attachment for woman. For a male to lie and mislead a woman only to get into her pants and then be negative toward her with no intentions of pursuing her is very crucial and immature.
Cmonnn ppl.
I am a woman, and I have had a few fuck buddies. I have never fallen in love with any of them. I enjoy the sex, he gets off, and its easier, and better than any boyfriend/one night stand I have ever had. I think I will always keep them around. I have a boyfriend, and he keeps me happy in every way except the sex, so I keep the sex buddy on the side. Sex buddies are the new best thing. Try it out.
i'm a girl, and this made me laugh!
I think all of you men need an ego boost, talking about how a girl just can't help falling in love with you, and needs commitment! Haha I don't think so, I'm in a 2 year relationship and need the freedom, I have a fuck buddy as well who i feel nothing for, he's asked me out twice to which I say no. And my boyfriend started out as just sex until he fell in love with me too. All you men need to get over yourselves. And if you call me a s***, you're a hypocrite
Slut
Yeah that does make you a slut. How am I a hypocrite, then?
Cleets
You guys on here sound really sad. Like you've all been used and abused by a bunch of girlfriends and wives who screwed you over. Now the reason you want FB's is to "get even" with womankind by screwing some girl over who has feelings for you. SMH. A bunch of hurt puppy dogs.
:/ victim of psychological fucking
I am a fuck buddy. I've fucked him only a few times and for over 8 months. He dumped his girlfriend due to his lifestyle ie swinger/horny. As for me I've had a few fuck buddies on the side because of one isn't available I go over to the next one. I switch between 2 extremely hot men but the thing is I'm starting to obsess over one particular fuck bud because of how amazing the sex is. No one can compare to the role play and s&m we are into. A lot of guys are probably grossed out by the fact of what I like. But for this man he loves it and I do too. But for right now I'm holding it all in... My extreme want for this one particular fuck buddy. I have nothing to say .... his friends all know I'm just his slave whore ... other than that it's going nowhere:( I'll just enjoy the sex and the psychological fuck it's causing to me. I don't like to depend on any man and am truly successful in regards to my career and how muh money I'd make. I'd spoil the fuck out of this guy.... Also the fact that this man is 7 years older makes it so much sexier. I'm infatuated with him.
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