Dating tips - why you can't get chicks.
No doubt, you’ve already been trying to get a chick with little success. And, you’re probably wondering, “What the fuck is the problem?” In truth, the reasons for your failure are as varied and numerous as the psychoses running amok in the average female’s head — here’s a sampler platter:
If girls are rejecting you, one reason could be easy and obvious. Maybe the woman you’ve picked to one day bear your children simply isn’t “on the market.”
She could be married, engaged, dating someone, lesbian, or a dude. So your rejection may have had less to do with personality or looks, and more to do with your obliviousness to outward signs of a woman’s unavailability such as an engagement ring, a wedding ring, wearing comfortable shoes, or having a huge Adam’s apple.
(Single women dress differently than taken women. They dress sluttier; lower collars, shorter skirts, and higher heels. “Taken” women just try to dress fashionably; and yes, there’s a difference. Problems differentiating the two can occur, however, when “Hooker Chic” comes back into vogue (which it always does).
Another possible reason you’re not getting the ladies could be that you’re a nice guy. Nice guys tell women they’re pretty. Nice guys are polite, caring and often empathize with women. Nice guys are, well… nice.
And that’s exactly why women don’t want to fuck them.
What’s the incentive for a woman to date a nice guy? Where’s the “I’m so hot, that really cool guy wanted to fuck me” self-satisfaction she can use to show-up her friends? Where are the bragging rights? There aren’t any with a nice guy.
What woman couldn’t get sex from a nice guy? The reason women want nothing to do with you may be that you’re not offering them a challenge of any kind. In fishing, you get a sense of accomplishment after landing a real fighter, because the fish doesn’t want to get caught. But how much fun would it be if the fish was trying to jump into the boat? Not a whole lot.
Humans, like women, view challenges as steps towards trying to improve their station in life. Women will rarely move laterally — if she’s already got a guy who’s an eight, he’s the “incumbent” and has an advantage over other guys who are also eights.
Most women don’t leave guys with whom they already have an emotional bond. And they generally won’t go after someone else simply for the sake of new or different (unlike men). Some women, it’s true, will jump at any new situation, but they’re whores and you shouldn’t waste your time pursuing them (especially since you can just offer them cash).
To get a girl to leave the incumbent guy, you have to offer her proof that you’re a tangible upgrade. So you need to bring something better to the party than a bottle of E and a six-pack of ribbed condoms.