4 months without sex

My boyfriend and I met at work 3 years ago and have been together ever since, today we still work in the same department and have been living together for the last 2.5 years.

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      My boyfriend and I met at work 3 years ago and have been together ever since, today we still work in the same department and have been living together for the last 2.5 years. Only the 1st 5 months were full of hot, steamy sex. Then one day he started giving me excuses and ever since, I’ve had to consider myself lucky if we do it 1 every 1-2 months. Now it’s been over 4 months or maybe more.
      I’m not fat nor have I gained extra weight since we’ve been together. I’ve tried talking to him and he says he still wants me real hard and will get better but never did. I take the initiative by either telling him plainly, trying to seduce him or giving him head but that still doesn’t get me sex. There’s NO connections the few times we do have sex, it’s almost mechanical and boring cuz there’s no bond at all. I’m open minded and up for almost anything, but he still doesn’t try anything, either regular or nasty. I see him getting boners anytime we kiss or hug, and he constantly tells me how much I turn him on and how pretty I am. From time to time he’ll tell me “tonight’s the night” or things like that, but regardless of all that it still never happens.
      I know for a fact that he’s not cheating on me. I used to think it’s b/c we’re always together, but we don’t have sex even if I stay at home or go t my sister’s for the weekend, not even make up sex the few times we fight!!!
      He’s 27 and I’m 23, I’ve been accumulating a lot of recentement lately, I think I no longer want to have sex with him. Sometimes it even bothers me when he kisses me and I feel somehow ofended when he finally tries one night after months of neglect. I think I’m on the verge of cheating on him

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      He has to be cheating on you.

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      Does he watch a lot of porn? Maybe he’s addicted and lost touch with reality.

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