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      I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I’m 22 and he is 23. It’s never been perfect but I thought deep down I loved him and I believed he loved me. Out of nowhere though my close friend who is very pretty, told me that about a month ago when they were alone together (he was buying weed from her) that he said all these things to her about our relationship and how I was upset over him mentioning multiple times that he wanted to have a threesome with her. I felt totally betrayed that he would tell her these things behind my back. They are not friends or close and in my opinion it was inappropriate for him to be tell her these things. He said I was crazy and all this stuff. Anyway so I was upset after I found out about that, called him out on it and somehow it turned into a conversation of him saying that he doesnt know if he wants to be with me, he’s not as attracted to me as he used to be, he needs to have sex with another girl to figure if he wants to be with me forever. Obviously I’m extremely hurt by this and break up with him. Later this afternoon I find out he had texted my friend and once again talked to her about our relationship, asks if she would still like to be friends and they can keep it a “secret”. She shuts him down and lo and behold later that day is telling me that he loves,wants to be with me forever,etc etc. I know this won’t seem like a big deal to some people but it really hurt me. That he would talk to her behind my back,about me, and all this “secret” friend bullshit? He says that it was so he could keep buying things from her.I can’t believe him. I’m just so hurt and confused, I feel like I should just get on with my life and call it quits but I still really love him.

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      Love don’t exist if a person tries to cheat once they will do it again. move on with your life.

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