I aint sayin he’s a golddigger.. BUT…

Ok so he’s a hard working man, but he doesn’t earn enough to cover all of our bills, I’ve been telling him to let me work but he wont have it he is one of those macho type of guys who wants his wife a

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      Ok so he’s a hard working man, but he doesn’t earn enough to cover all of our bills, I’ve been telling him to let me work but he wont have it he is one of those macho type of guys who wants his wife at home rasing his kids. When we first started we both used to work I would earn more than he did and of course he handled all of our finances which would mean me giving him all of my paycheck (from both jobs) and he would blow it buying clothes for himself, expensive cowboy boots, and just going out 2 to 3 nights a week. that was with our first child when the second one came along he told me to stop working and he would pay all the bills which he would barely handle we are always paying late or borrowing money from my mom. And it has gotten to the point of being 3k deep in debt with her with the only way of paying her back is to wait for our income tax and giving it all to her. I have been teling him that Im ready to get back out there and finally he is listening. He knows I can bet a better paying job and is finally looking into the idea, the only problem is he is already looking into what we are buying as far as new furniture or a new car for him when I do start working no matter how many times I keep reminding him that we need to SAVE for our kids and our future. We live with my sister all stuffed in one bedroom while she has two bedroms to herself. He’s a great dad but im starting to wonder weather or not he is a good part of my family my kids adore him but his priorities are not straight. He is selfish he has a closet full of cothes shoes boots whie I only have clothes my mom has biught for me which is a couple of jeans and maybe 3 he has bought and a pair of 9.99 shoes I use every day. what do I do?

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