I am 32 and just had my partner of two years put back in jail for abusing me and my roomies who saved me from getting choked to death. He went to jail the last time for attempting to cut my throat. He took a plea deal that time and I went back to him like a dumb ass. Since the time I got back he cheated on me fifteen times once even on my last birthday…yet I was stupid enough to keep him. Then he went and started a war of sorts with some people when I warned him against it. His aunt tried to say I was to blame for that, but that’s when I finally stood up for myself. I dumped his childish ass. He was 22 but acted like a 2 year old. He didn’t have a job and he depended on me. I am disabled and draw two small checks a month. But anyway he kept coming back over and over after I told him I had nothing to talk about…nothing to say. That last time is when he put his hands on my neck and choked me until two of my roomies rushed to my aid. Once freed I then got in the house and dialed 911. My question is how do I find a guy who won’t hurt me? This was the third bad relationship I’ve had. This was the longest lasting one. They all seem to be getting longer and longer.