She wants a guy who will cheat on her and treat her like shit, she thinks that’s what a man is. she from a fucked up culture. she says im too special to her to get involved in a relationship because she says if it doesn’t work out, she wouldn’t want to lose me, I think she thinks Im a little naïve to believe all of this. ive been supporting her for a few years now which is stupid on my part because I do this because I love her but, she is indeed a good friend, better than any friend ive ever had, she evens goes to different countries and helps me invest into land and property and things, but at the same time, always wants to party and drink ect. am I waisting my time, or is she just not ready to commit like I am. should I wait for her or move on, I know we can go far in a relation ship or not. but I feel like the whole friend thing is a waist of time if it wont lead to anything past that especialy between a man and a woman.